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		<title>Does Church Branding Matter?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 May 2021 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Home &#62; Blog &#62; Does Church Branding Matter? Does Church Branding Matter? By Nancy Cornwell Should branding matter for your church? Let’s think through this topic both biblically and practically if it matters and what you need to do about it. Every church has a brand. There is no such [&#8230;]</p>
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<h1>Does Church Branding Matter?</h1>
<h4>By Nancy Cornwell</h4>
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<p>Should branding matter for your church? Let’s think through this topic both biblically and practically if it matters and what you need to do about it.</p>
<p>Every church has a brand. There is no such thing as a church without a brand. A brand is simply what a community thinks about a church. Let me repeat that: your brand is what your community thinks about your church, not what you think about your church.</p>
<p>Do you want someone else to define what your brand is for your church? Or, do you want to define the brand of your church?</p>
<p>Branding matters. We often feel frustrated because we think of branding as a marketing scheme and something that is only applicable in the business world. People view branding as a marketing tactic to convince you to buy something that you don’t need and doesn’t deliver on what is promised.</p>
<p>Branding is merely telling your church’s story. So, how do you tell your story?</p>
<p>In Acts 17:5-8, we see branding elements in descriptions of the church at Thessalonica. These believers were known for for turning “the world upside down” (v. 6) as followers of Jesus Christ. They clearly had a reputation in their community.</p>
<p>Here are four steps to think through your church’s branding.</p>
<h3>1. Branding is not what you think you are. Branding is what your community thinks you are.</h3>
<p>Your church’s brand and identity is not who and what you determine it to be unless you work diligently to communicate that message. Many churches claim to be the friendliest on the block, but those claims are only true to others within the church, not to outsiders. Other churches may say they are missional. Often these churches only talk about missions and give toward missions efforts but don’t actually engage on mission. With these types of churches, what they perceive of themselves is often a better brand than what the community sees.</p>
<h3>2. Branding is not just your church’s logo or name. Branding is your identity.</h3>
<p>Unless the church has experienced a public failure in the community, you likely don’t need to change your church’s name. Instead, create consistent communications about your church. Remember that your name and logo are only a small part of your church’s identity.</p>
<h3>3. Branding is telling your story.</h3>
<p>How do you want to tell your story? What is it about your church that you want your community to know? You must first identify your purpose then identify your process to achieve this purpose. With your purpose and process, you can then better communicate and display who your church is, how your church behaves, and what values your church holds closely. These things help your community understand what matters to you as a church. You may even discover that many in the community also resonate with these values.</p>
<h3>4. Investing in your church’s brand is as important as investing in your church’s building and communication tools.</h3>
<p>Your paint, chairs, signage, website, and so forth matter in contemporary culture. If you don’t manage these elements as well, your brand will still be out there. It just may not be what you want it to be. Your brand matters. Treat it that way.</p>
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<p>Home &#62; Blog &#62; Have You Lost the Vision? Have You Lost the Vision? By New Churches Team What do you do when you just don’t have the vision to go forward in ministry? The reality is ministry is often a long, hard road. The idea that we are constantly [&#8230;]</p>
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<h1>Have You Lost the Vision?</h1>
<h4>By New Churches Team</h4>
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<p>What do you do when you just don’t have the vision to go forward in ministry? The reality is ministry is often a long, hard road. The idea that we are constantly filled with passion and enthusiasm is a modern invention.</p>
<p>More realistically, the joy of ministry does not come from vision. The joy of ministry comes from faithfulness, obedience, and community. Those are the things that get you through tough times of leading. We are not accustomed to dwelling in the normalcy of ministry and mission so it may feel like our vision is gone, but really this is just a time that we have to keep plodding through faithful to the mission.</p>
<h3>A Difficult Season for All</h3>
<p>When we think about vision and what we get excited about when we wake up in the morning, everything that comes into what it means to be a pastor, the emotional reaction people are experiencing could be a reflection of where we’ve placed our identity. If you are a serial starter of things, being an experience junky in the ministry is not a great place to be in this season. This is a hard time. But right now, all of our visions are being crushed under the weight of reality and we all need a vision for Christ and the cross and God’s people.</p>
<p>However, there are times and places to step back and step away. If you don’t have the vision for what’s next, but you had the vision for it, it may be an appropriate time to pass it on to someone else. We all have different personalities and bents. Some of us are much more near-sighted than far-sighted. We all have different strengths in what we lead. The lack of certainty toward the future may be exasperating the feelings of lost vision. Turn to the One who never changes. Make sure your vision is on Christ and not your identity or your church and allow Him to lead you.</p>
<p><i>Adapted from the <a href="https://newchurches.com/episode-533-what-do-you-do-when-you-dont-have-the-vision-anymore/">New Churches Q&amp;A Podcast Episode 533: What Do You Do When You Don’t Have the Vision Anymore?</a> What is the Best Leader to Team Member Ratio? Click</i> <a href="https://newchurches.com/podcasts/"><i>here</i></a> <i>to listen to more to church planting, multisite, and multiplication tips.</i></p>
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<h1>6 Ways Pastors Struggle</h1>
<h4>By Ed Stetzer</h4>
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<p>When pastors go into ministry, we don’t leave behind all of the struggles that define the human reality in which we live. Like others, we struggle with any number of things each day—interpersonal relationships, our marriages, as parents, with our health, with our self image.</p>
<p class="text">And for some pastors, our struggles can go in one of two directions—either we hide them and try to deal with them in isolation, or we openly share that we, like everyone else, have a lot on our minds.</p>
<p class="text">The unfortunate reality is that too many of us choose the former option. This is not necessarily because we don’t want to share, but because we either don’t know how, or we don’t feel safe. It is not easy to preach a sermon on healthy marriages even as our own is hanging from a thread. Nor is it easy to talk about the impact of sin when we are wrestling ourselves with our own addiction to porn, alcohol, technology…you pick your poison.</p>
<p class="text">As a pastor, let me share six unique ways that pastors struggle. My hope is that this short list will allow both leaders and their congregations the opportunity to begin to ask, “How can we change our situation?”</p>
<h3 class="text">First, pastors struggle with identity.</h3>
<p class="text">Pastors generally have three identities they need to balance: their perceived religious identity, their cultural identity, and their own identity. I remember some years back going over to a neighbor’s house. We didn’t know them well, but they knew I was a pastor. When we first came over to their house, they said it was like Jesus was visiting the house.</p>
<p class="text">Well, I assure you that there is a big difference between Jesus and me! Yet because of my <em>religious identity</em>, this was how they perceived me. It was as though I had some kind of spiritual perfection, which is daunting to try and live up to.</p>
<p class="text">As pastors, we must remind people that we aren’t the people with all the answers—we are simply there to point people to the <em>person</em> who does have all the answers.</p>
<p class="text">Tied into our religious identity is our <em>cultural identity</em>. Pastors are on display, living in a fishbowl which can show the good, the bad, and the ugly. You probably have two to three times the people who attend your church on a weekly basis who are aware of who you are and your church, and they are watching. You know that, and (if you have children) so do they.</p>
<p class="text">Finally, there is our own identity—the person we really are when are alone and when we are with our family.</p>
<h3 class="text">Second, pastors struggle with community.</h3>
<p class="text">How do you get into community with people who either put you too high on a pedestal or watch for your every fault and failure? It is critical to find people, hopefully in your church, hopefully involving your elders and leaders, with whom you can build healthy community.</p>
<p class="text">Sometimes these people are outside of your church, and that’s okay. Sometimes this can be in a cohort of other pastors and leaders. Our accountability and community can also come from church structures like our boards or ecclesiastical structures.</p>
<p class="text">Someone once asked me, “Are you fully disclosed to anyone? Is there anyone to whom you are fully disclosed, other than your wife? If you don’t have that, you probably don’t have that close-knit community.” I personally do have a couple people I am fully disclosed to and a group of people I consider close friends who speak into my life.</p>
<p class="text">Pastoral ministry can sometimes elevate us out of community in a very unhelpful and unhealthy way. So we must be vigilant.</p>
<h3 class="text">Third, pastors struggle with boundaries.</h3>
<p class="text">As pastors, we must remember that we cannot have a deep personal relationship with everyone in the church. We want to shepherd them to the degree that we can. If the church is larger, we will primarily shepherd them through the teaching on Sunday mornings. Or find other creative ways that fill us and utilize our gifts and passions.</p>
<p class="text">But we need to have boundaries and know when to say yes and no. Many pastors feel they’ll be penalized if they say no to anything. We simply can’t say yes to everything. Last week, two students at Dallas Seminary came up to me with a very focused quesiton. They said, “We just got one question for you. How do you tell people that you can’t do things so that you can maintain the boundaries?”</p>
<p class="text">I simply responded with, “I tell them the reason.” A lot of times I’ll say something like, “No, I’m so sorry. I made a commitment to Donna, my wife, that I’m going to be at this.” Or I’ll say, “This is actually the time when I’ve committed to my family.” Or I’ll often say, “I can’t do that and keep up with the other things that I know I have to do, and still be a good husband and a good father.”</p>
<p class="text">Boundaries mean learning to say no. They also mean having healthy relationships. Not every relationship is a deep, abiding relationship.</p>
<h3 class="text">Fourth, pastors struggle with accountability.</h3>
<p class="text">Accountability means different things to different people. If you’re a pastor or a church leader, you are not accountable to everybody. You’re not accountable to the internet. You’re not accountable to Twitter. You’re accountable to your elders.</p>
<p class="text">You’re accountable, if you’re church has congregational polity, to your congregation. In a sense, whether your congregational or not, you’re accountable to your congregation. Where I work, I am accountable to my boss, Margaret Diddams, and to a board, and then to a sub-board. I’m accountable to President Phil Ryken. I’m also accountable to the places where I partner—Moody Radio, Highpoint Church.</p>
<p class="text">I don’t just have accountability, I value it.</p>
<p class="text">But here’s the thing: in an unhealthy world, you’re accountable to everyone. In a healthy world, you have true, submitted accountability to the right people. Again, in a church, if you’re a senior pastor, it is probably to a board and maybe ultimately to your church.</p>
<p class="text">Believe it or not, there’s a real freedom in true accountability.</p>
<h3 class="text">Fifth, pastors struggle psychologically.</h3>
<p class="text">According to a Lifeway Research study, 23 percent of pastors indicated that they had struggled psychologically with 12 percent of pastors saying it was diagnosed (the other 11 saying it was undiagnosed).</p>
<p class="text">Here’s the challenge: you can’t talk about this in a lot of settings. I have a friend who actually lost a job because of mental illness, and he said, “I want to be able to come out of the medicine cabinet, the medicine closet.” There’s this sense that he can’t say, “You know what? I’m taking medication because of depression.”</p>
<p class="text">This is one of the reasons that on Friday, December 6th, we will be <a class="" href="http://www.gc2-summit.com/">gathering together</a> Rick Warren, Ruth Haley Barton, Derwin Gray, a number of counselors, and many others to talk about depression, burnout, mental health issues, and more.</p>
<p class="text">Phil Ryken, President of Wheaton College, is going to talk about how he struggled with suicidal ideation. Pastors struggle psychologically, and to acknowledge that makes a very important difference because that way we can find help and partners in the mental health community.</p>
<h3 class="text">Finally, pastors struggle spiritually.</h3>
<p class="text">As pastors, it can be challenging to be seen and perceived as being the voice of God in a context. I don’t want people to see me that way. Instead, I want them to see me as someone who points to the person who has all the answers.</p>
<p class="text">I, too, struggle spiritually. There are times I’m not faithful in the Word. There are times when I struggle with my prayer life. In those times, I need to share that with people to whom I’m accountable.</p>
<p class="text">If you’re a pastor or a church leader, I want to encourage you to find boundaries, community, and accountability, and a mental health counselor if you need that. We all will struggle, but let’s struggle in accordance with the teachings of the Bible, in community, in accountability, seeking to grow spiritually so as to grow in our own discipleship and our own witness.</p>
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<h1>Deconstructing the Lies We Believe</h1>
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<h3>Who Do These Lies Apply To?</h3>
<p>In <i>You Are What You Do: And Six Other Lies About Work, Life, and Love</i>, Daniel Im outlines seven lies that the culture says are truth. Some of the lies have been around a really long time. And every lie can apply to every generation, but there are some lies that some generations are more susceptible to than others. The gig economy has elevated these lies to the surface, which is people working multiple jobs and having a side hustle. If you aren’t working in the gig economy, you are funding it. Consider any time you have ordered from Uber Eats or paid someone to mow your lawn. Every generation is either working in or fueling the gig economy.</p>
<h3>Two Lies That Many of Us Struggle With</h3>
<p>The title includes a lie that seems to affect everyone – you are what you do. As kids, we are asked what we want to do when we grow up. As adults, we are asked what we do for a living. At the end of our lives, we are measured by what we’ve done. It’s not surprising that this lie that we are what we do has seeped so deeply into our culture. It seems to be the primary way we assign value to each other.</p>
<p>A second lie – you are who you raise – is one that any parent will face. Have you ever been given a “My child is an honor student” bumper sticker? Who was it really for? It is for the parent. You probably wouldn’t apply it to your car with the motivation of showing everyone up, however underneath the surface it does feel good to be raising that child. On the surface, you think that involvement in my child’s life is better than neglect, but this lie tricks us into believing that our self-worth is tied directly to the performance of our children. That’s why soccer moms and overbearing dads are a thing. If there are things your children do that embarrass you in public, but wouldn’t say anything about at home, you are concerned about what people will think about you as a parent.</p>
<h3>The Bottom Line</h3>
<p>There is a biblical truth on the opposite side of each of these lies. Our world needs to know what those biblical truths are. What the world says about you is not your identity, but instead your identity is found in Christ.</p>
<p><i>Adapted from the</i> <a href="https://newchurches.com/episode-464-seven-lies-people-face-today/"><i>New Churches Q&amp;A Podcast Episode 464: Seven Lies People Face Today</i></a><i>. Click</i> <a href="https://newchurches.com/podcasts/"><i>here</i></a> <i>to listen to more to church planting, multisite, and multiplication tips.</i></p>
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<p>Source: <a href="https://newchurches.com/blogs/deconstructing-the-lies-we-believe/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wplink-edit="true">Deconstructing the Lies We Believe</a></p>
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<h1>5 Lessons Learned as a Church Planter</h1>
<h4>By Dustin Neeley</h4>
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<p>Many people share in the success stories of their church plants. Many church planters are quick to tell you the great things happening at their current campus. As encouraging as those stories are, it’s equally as important to hear about the mistakes that people made in their church planting so that we can learn from them. Here are five mistakes and the lessons I’ve learned as a church planter.</p>
<h3>1. Don’t underestimate the difficulty of church planting, and don’t overestimate your own ability.</h3>
<p>This point is a two-in-one, because there were really two lessons learned here. Don’t overestimate your own ability. Sometimes it’s easy to think that success from your current position at a church will carry over into your new idea. Some people even have the idea that they are God’s gift to church planting and will be able to succeed simply because they want to. It’s crucial to humble yourself to yourself, to the church, and before the Lord. Remember why you are church planting in the first place. Be faithful, be fruitful, and listen to God.</p>
<p>Don’t underestimate the difficulty of church planting. Ministry is hard, but, in some ways, church planting is even harder. When there is no building, no money, no resources, and no people, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the impossibility of the task at hand. However, it is in these moments that you find your true hope in the gospel. Church planting is difficult and hard work, and the more you prepare yourself for that, the better off you will be.</p>
<h3>2. Don’t neglect your physical health.</h3>
<p>When responsibilities start piling up left and right, it’s easy to push your physical health to the side. You start working out less, eating more fast food, and feel your energy slowly spiraling downward. Pounds pile on, and you don’t have the energy to get yourself into shape. However, church planting is very demanding physically. It will take a toll on your body. If you’re not eating well, sleeping well, and exercising often, it’s going to be harder for you. You have to prioritize your health. Church planting is a marathon, not a sprint, and you need to treat your body like you’re training for one.</p>
<h3>3. Don’t work all the time.</h3>
<p>Working all of the time will wear you out. In the beginning of church planting, you may be working long hours. Like 60-80 hours a week. But this lifestyle is not sustainable. You will quickly wear out and feel drained. This will eventually take a toll on your marriage and family life. When you’re home, put your phone down and be present with your family. Establish parameters that will help you cut your work life from your family life.</p>
<h3>4. Don’t care too much about what everyone else thinks of you.</h3>
<p>When planting a church, it’s important to realize where you place your identity. If you put your identity into the church plant, you will succeed with the church plant and fail with the church. In order to do your job well, your identity must foremost be rooted in the gospel.</p>
<h3>5. Don’t serve from ecclesiastical whiplash.</h3>
<p>If you’re going to make changes within your church, do it prayerfully, slowly, and deliberately. You have to be careful about how you share this information with your church. If they feel like they are being jerked in different directions with conflicting ideas and messages, they are going to be less likely to support the ideas.</p>
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<p>Source: <a href="https://newchurches.com/blogs/5-lessons-learned-as-a-church-planter/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wplink-edit="true">5 Lessons Learned as a Church Planter</a></p>
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<p>Home &#62; Blog &#62; Finding Your Identity in Christ &#8211; Not Your Ministry Finding Your Identity in Christ &#8211; Not Your Ministry By Ed Stetzer My identity has too often been tied to the successes or failures of the ministries that I lead—and too frequently in unhealthy ways. It’s easy [&#8230;]</p>
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<h1>Finding Your Identity in Christ &#8211; Not Your Ministry</h1>
<h4>By Ed Stetzer</h4>
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<p>My identity has too often been tied to the successes or failures of the ministries that I lead—and too frequently in unhealthy ways.</p>
<p class="text">It’s easy to find yourself counting heads at church on a Sunday or eyeing up the funds that were raised on any given week, wishing that more was accomplished. I remember times when I mistakenly thought, <em>If I can just get over 200 people this week, then I’ll finally be at peace.</em> Evaluating our leadership capacities can take some ugly turns when done numerically based on factors that are, quite frankly, completely outside of our control.</p>
<p class="text">I’m a highly driven person; quite honestly, it’s that drivenness that has in part helped me be a successful church planter and revitalizer for many years. What’s unhealthy is not the ambition itself, but the ways I let longings for success overtake my heart and mind. Ambitious people become demoralized not when we dream big, set goals, or vision cast but when the realization of these things we fantasize about become essential to our happiness and well-being.</p>
<p class="text">At issue here are some fundamental questions that Christians everywhere—not just in the church—have to answer: What does it look like for followers of Christ to live and work with a <em>healthy</em> sense of ambition? Furthermore, how should we approach failure in light of that?</p>
<h3 class="text">God Wants YOU</h3>
<p class="text">Let me start by saying this: It is possible to be ambitious and driven while also being an enthusiastic Christ follower at the same time. The two are not mutually exclusive.</p>
<p class="text">God has given each of us gifts. Some of us are gifted with patient spirits, others of us can’t help but forge ahead. Some of us are good at managing large staffs of people, others of us are content to follow others and take direction.</p>
<p class="text">Regardless of how these inclinations and abilities manifest themselves in everyday life, if you glean nothing else from this article, hear this: whoever you are, whatever you do, God wants to use <em>you</em>. Yes, you. He wants to show you how to use your you-ness the way he always intended and teach you to leverage your skills and abilities for the building of his kingdom.</p>
<p class="text">Don’t worry about what you’ve been given; think instead about the giver himself and meditate on all the good works that he has prepared in advance for you to do.</p>
<h3 class="text">His Goals, Not Ours</h3>
<p class="text">As I’ve said before, it can be easy for my ambition to get the better of me; I’m wired to want to beat numbers, do better, and track improvements over a period of time.</p>
<p class="text">Often, I think it’s easy for pastors to start thinking numerically about their congregations. We create measures for success that, quite honestly, are not representative of God’s own measures of success for our ministries.</p>
<p class="text">More often than not, the most dangerous part about all this comes when we try to compare our success to that of other pastors and ministry leaders in our communities. When we do this, not only are we trying to ‘beat’ our own numbers, but their numbers as well. This kind of thinking is a slippery slope down the wrong road—it’s most definitely an example of ambition gone bad.</p>
<p class="text">God has called us to live in unity as the body of Christ. Focusing on ways to one-up each other’s ministries is not how we’ve been instructed to go about that.</p>
<p class="text">How do we fix this? Well, I think it starts by looking at our ministries the way that Paul did. We see throughout Acts and Paul’s letters to churches that his ambition is centered around not what he wants to accomplish, but what <em>God</em> has called him to do. In Acts 16, Paul tries to preach in the province of Asia and the Holy Spirit actually prevents him from doing so.</p>
<p class="text">Reading passages like this, it’s clear who is in control of Paul’s ministry: hint, it’s not Paul. Those of us who preach, teach, or lead in the church truly delude ourselves if we think that we are somehow solely responsible for the present, past, or future successes of our ministries.</p>
<p class="text">Our posture should be one of surrender to God who holds all the cards—and parishioners we serve—in his hands. Any ambition we have should start and end with the knowledge of his sovereignty over all the things we so tightly cling to.</p>
<p class="text">At the end of the day, it’s not about <em>our</em> goals, it’s about <em>his.</em> It’s not about what kind of success <em>we</em> imagine, but what <em>he</em> has willed for us to accomplish.</p>
<p class="text">It’s not about <em>our</em> name being made great, but about <em>him</em> being brought glory<em>.</em> Ambition channeled for the glory of God is the only form Christ-followers can ever really strive for and still stand on solid ground.</p>
<h3 class="text">So, What About Failure?</h3>
<p class="text">In ministry, there are always ups and downs. In churches particularly, bad Sundays sometimes happen—attendance is low and sermons don’t turn out exactly as we’d originally hoped. This isn’t something to stew over for days or blame yourself about; it’s something to surrender to God.</p>
<p class="text">Self-reflection and occasional critique are important, don’t get me wrong. What’s not helpful is when we allow an obsession with perfection and dreams of worldly success to prevent us from appreciating the ways that God really is at work in our midst.</p>
<p class="text">The truth is that we don’t see the big picture. We serve a God who is sovereign over all things. It’s only through his strength and provision that we are able to accomplish anything of eternal significance in this life.</p>
<p class="text">As the Psalmist reminds us, “Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain” (Ps.127:1).</p>
<p class="text">Pastors and ministry leaders: trust that he who began a good work in you and in your organizations will bring it to completion in his good timing.</p>
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<p>Source: <a href="https://newchurches.com/blogs/finding-your-identity-in-christ-not-your-ministry/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wplink-edit="true">Finding Your Identity in Christ – Not Your Ministry</a></p>
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<p>by Downline Ministries: That is a question that quite honestly haunted me for a very long time. To be fair, I could give you the cliché Christian answers of who I am in Christ, quote some trite Bible verses at you—but none of that was penetrating my heart or emotions, [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>I’ll save you the sordid details, but I imagine some of you may be able to relate to parts of my story and my struggle with codependency. This sin of idolizing the opinion of others slowly crept in to my life unchecked. Eventually, I began to think back and try to figure out why I wasn’t secure in my identity in Christ. I mean, I knew all the verses. I had even memorized some. I believed in Christ and thought I was trusting in Him to be my identity, but it didn’t feel like my identity had any roots. It was affected by my circumstances pretty easily- so what was I missing?</p>
<h2><strong>What I surround myself with matters.</strong></h2>
<p>There is a physical component to spiritual warfare, and one of the first things the enemy wants to attack is our identity – the very essence of who we are. He does this in a number of ways, and for me many of them start with what I am surrounding myself with. What I view, what I listen to, what activities I do  – all of those affect my mood and how I see myself.  Many times I am subconsciously taking in the lies of the culture surrounding me and I slowly begin to believe them. If I am not taking care of my body physically, oftentimes my mind and emotions follow suit. When I am taking care of my body and intentionally stewarding it for the glory of God, I notice that this affects my spiritual life. It all seems to flow together more easily.</p>
<p>However, when I spend my time listening to love songs, I begin to find that I am not content in my relationship status. As I watch TV, I am less content with my body image, my house, my lifestyle, and how “cool” my social scene is. As I listen to advertisements, I think that I <em>do</em> need more in my life to really be satisfied.<br />
But all of those are lies!! When the Lord saw that it was not good for Adam to be alone, he made a helper fit for him. God didn’t just bring Adam a dog and convince him that it would meet his needs – He made an <em>entirely new creation</em> for him. God knew how he made Adam, and he knew what his needs were.</p>
<p>Often times I focus so much on the circumstances and things surrounding me that I fail to look to God. I must surround myself with His Truth before I can ever hope to believe it.</p>
<p><strong>What I trust in will make me hopeful or hopeless.</strong></p>
<p>If I am trusting in things of this world, I am trusting in a mere shadow. Creation was never meant to give me purpose or identity; it cannot bear the weight of my idolatry.  If I am trusting in a job promotion to make me feel worthy, I am going to be sorely disappointed and spend my life jumping from idol to idol to try to find value and meaning.</p>
<p>When my hope is in Christ and in being everything He has created me to be, life will look so different. Now my roles, seasons, and callings are a way for me to glorify God using the passions, talents, and abilities that He has uniquely gifted me with in order to express my identity. And that brings me <em>hope.</em> This hope is eternal and resting in something bigger than myself and my mundane daily activities.</p>
<p>The things of this world, the chasing of the “American Dream” leads me to feel spent, hopeless, and ultimately empty because they were never meant to satisfy. I have a longing for something that will only be satisfied in eternity – when my identity is flowing from that, it gives me hope and security. This hope is secure because God is secure – Scripture calls this hope an “anchor for our soul” – it keeps us rooted, not tossed to and fro with the waves. We stay grounded because this hope in Christ, that what he says is true, because he is unchanging.</p>
<h2><strong>Our identity is in Christ and brings unity amidst diversity.</strong></h2>
<p>My identity is only rooted in what God says is true of me—nothing else. Now, don’t hear me say that nothing in this life affects us, it does! But, the temporary seasons, roles, callings, and times of this life serve to give me a platform to express my identity. They don’t define me. I am the same woman single or married, parent or not, employed or unemployed, rich or poor. Paul belabors this point in Galatians 3:28: <em>There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you</em> <em>are all one in Christ Jesus</em><em>.”</em> Notice here that he is arguing for our unity in our identity. Our identity in Christ leaves no room for prejudice, judgment or division. We are <strong>Christ’s</strong> workmanship, created in him for good works.</p>
<p>Not for our own glory.</p>
<p>Not to be the best at everything.</p>
<p>Our identity rests in the fact that we are created in God’s image, to be his image bearers to this world and to walk in the manner worthy of the calling that we have received. Lord, I pray that I will choose to believe that each day.</p>
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<p>Downline Ministries exists to strengthen and elevate biblical discipleship in and through the local church by strategically partnering with church leadership to equip men and women to make disciples in their home, church, and community for the glory of God and exaltation of Christ among the nations. <a href="https://downlineministries.com/about-downline/">Learn more about Downline Ministries here</a>.</p>
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<p>by Carey Nieuwhof: Leadership is a journey…a journey that’s probably different than you thought it would be before you stepped into leadership.</p>
<p>When I was young, I always thought top leaders had it all figured out. That the uncertainty would one day disappear once I had more life and leadership under my belt.</p>
<p>But as you eventually learn, it doesn’t really work that way.</p>
<p>In fact, I think most leaders struggle more than they let on. I know personally, at one point or another, I’ve struggled in each of the areas listed below. But, at the time, because I didn’t want to tell anyone how I <i>really</i> felt, I kept mostly quiet.</p>
<p>Looking back, I realize for too long I kept far too much of it to myself.</p>
<p>You know what keeping it to yourself does, right?</p>
<p>It leaves you isolated. And the silence gives fear power—power it should never have.</p>
<p>Just to let you know you’re not alone, and to break the power of darkness by cracking some daylight, here are 12 secrets most leaders won’t tell you.</p>
<p><em>Silence gives fear power. Power it should never have.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/12-secrets-most-leaders-wont-tell-you/&amp;text=Silence gives fear power. Power it should never have.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>1. I’m less secure than I appear</strong></h2>
<p>For most leaders, the together exterior doesn’t always match the fragile interior.</p>
<p>Security is a journey for sure…a tough one. Most people don’t like insecure leaders. But insecurity is a trap…the more insecure you are, the more you resist telling anyone you’re insecure. And the more they dislike you.</p>
<p>If it helps, I outline <a href="https://careynieuwhof.com/2014/11/tell-youre-insecure-leader-5-signs/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">5 signs you’re an insecure leader in this post</a>, and <a href="https://careynieuwhof.com/2012/10/how-to-become-a-more-secure-leader/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">5 ways to become a more secure leader here</a>.</p>
<p>I think the best way to start dealing with your insecurity is to admit it, and deal with it.</p>
<p>A counsellors’ offices and a safe friend are great places to start with that by the way. So is prayer.</p>
<p><em>For most leaders, the together exterior doesn’t always match the fragile interior.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/12-secrets-most-leaders-wont-tell-you/&amp;text=For most leaders, the together exterior doesn’t always match the fragile interior.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>2. I secretly worry I’m failing</strong></h2>
<p>Leadership is complex and involves going through seasons of unpopularity.</p>
<p>It also involves making tough calls that can make you feel like you’re failing. Add to that challenges at home and unresolved issues from the past, and it can get crushing at times.</p>
<p>The negative voices in you head can get loud, and while people online debate who’s the G.O.A.T, you secretly feel like you’re simply the goat.</p>
<h2><strong>3. I’m lonelier than I let on</strong></h2>
<p>Isolation is a problem throughout our culture these days.</p>
<p>Strangely, technology has made us more connected than we’ve ever been before, yet we’ve never felt more alone.</p>
<p>But leadership adds a new dimension. Because leaders deal with challenges others don’t naturally understand, it gets even more lonely.</p>
<p>Add to that the fact that most of us who are driven type leaders don’t do relationships easily, and sometimes it’s lonelier than it needs to be.</p>
<p><em>Strangely, technology has made us more connected than we&#8217;ve ever been before, yet we&#8217;ve never felt more alone. </em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/12-secrets-most-leaders-wont-tell-you/&amp;text=Strangely, technology has made us more connected than we" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>4. It’s hard at home sometimes</strong></h2>
<p>Instagram lies. It’s not always easy at home.</p>
<p>It’s gotten better over the years, but there have been seasons in my leadership where my family got too much of my unfiltered stress. Not fair. Not fair at all. But true.</p>
<p>Home is hard. Work is hard. Put the two together in an ill-thought through combination and it can be lethal.</p>
<p>I really believe that, in the long run, <a href="https://careynieuwhof.com/2013/06/why-almost-everything-rides-on-how-you-lead-at-home/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">everything rides on how you lead at home</a>.</p>
<p><em>Instagram lies. It’s not always easy at home.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/share?text=Instagram+lies.+It’s+not+always+easy+at+home.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof&amp;url=https://careynieuwhof.com/12-secrets-most-leaders-wont-tell-you/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>5. The criticism hurts</strong></h2>
<p>We pretend the criticism doesn’t hurt, but it does, whether we admit it or not.</p>
<p>We put our poker faces on, but deep down it stings.</p>
<p>There are ways to handle <a href="https://careynieuwhof.com/how-to-handle-your-critics-like-a-pro-not-a-toddler/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">criticism like a pro, not a toddler</a>. Acknowledging it hurts is a great first step.</p>
<h2><strong>6. I’m afraid to ask for what I really want</strong></h2>
<p>I’ve usually been pretty forward in my leadership and I’m grateful for an incredibly honest dialogue I have with my team where I serve.</p>
<p>But there are seasons where I’ve been afraid to ask for what I really want. And even as I type those words I think “That sounds so selfish.”</p>
<p>But sometimes you just need a vacation. Or, especially when your family is young and you’re just starting out, you need a raise. Or you need more staff.</p>
<p>Or you need someone to have your back. Or you need a friend. Or you need a decision to go your way.</p>
<p>You’re just afraid to ask.</p>
<p>You know what I’ve found? Almost every time I’ve asked, someone said “Why didn’t you ask sooner? We’d love to help.”</p>
<p>See what secrets and silence do?</p>
<p>Solitude is a gift from God. Isolation is a tool of the enemy.</p>
<p><em>Solitude is a gift from God. Isolation is a tool of the enemy.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/12-secrets-most-leaders-wont-tell-you/&amp;text=Solitude is a gift from God. Isolation is a tool of the enemy.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>7. I’ve thought about leaving even though I’m staying</strong></h2>
<p>You’ve thought about leaving, even though you’re staying…true? Of course it’s true, unless you just started last Tuesday, and even then…</p>
<p>Everyone goes through seasons of doubt and questions about the future.</p>
<p>But when you sit in silence with this one for too long, you end up waffling. Not staying, but not leaving either. You end up putting in half an effort, and you’re half the leader you could be.</p>
<p>Not sure if you should go? <a href="https://careynieuwhof.com/7-signs-time-to-leave/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Here are 7 signs it’s time to leave.</a></p>
<h2><strong>8. I have a secret job</strong></h2>
<p>One of the reasons leadership is hard is because you deal with so many intangibles. It’s brain work. People management. Conflict management. Getting people to do things they wouldn’t ordinarily do.</p>
<p>On bad days, many leaders I know dream of doing something entirely different. For a season, my escape job was to stack boxes in a warehouse. Because at least if you moved a box, it stayed moved.</p>
<h2><strong>9. Sometimes I dream of escaping</strong></h2>
<p>In my unhealthy seasons in leadership, I’d dream of escaping. Not only would I stack boxes in a warehouse for a living, I’d do just about anything except what I’m doing.</p>
<p>If that thought lingers for more than a season, you either need to get healthier and stay in the job you’re doing, or if you are healthy, it may simply be a sign it’s time to <a href="https://careynieuwhof.com/7-signs-time-to-leave/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">find a new job</a>.</p>
<h2><strong>10. I feel like I don’t really know what I’m doing</strong></h2>
<p>Eventually you reach a level of leadership, either because you’ve been at it long enough or because whatever you’re leading got big enough, that you realize there are no clear answers. There just aren’t.</p>
<p>You surrounded yourself with the smartest people you could and you realize that even the smart people don’t know what to do.</p>
<p>That’s where real leadership begins—when you feel like you don’t really know what you’re doing, but you keep <i>doing</i> anyway.</p>
<p>That’s how history gets changed. You were just the last person standing, even though inside it felt like sheer confusion.</p>
<p><em>You know you&#8217;re leading at a high level when even the smart people don&#8217;t know what to do.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/12-secrets-most-leaders-wont-tell-you/&amp;text=You know you" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>11. People seem to believe in me more than I believe in myself some days</strong></h2>
<p>When you’ve been through #9 enough times, you will be ready to give up believing in yourself. But you look around and realize other people keep believing in you.</p>
<p>That’s exactly what you need. You’re likely leading very well if enough of the good people keep believing in you.</p>
<p>So when you stop believing in you, keep believing in the people who believe in you.</p>
<p><em>So when you stop believing in you, keep believing in the people who believe in you.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/12-secrets-most-leaders-wont-tell-you/&amp;text=So when you stop believing in you, keep believing in the people who believe in you.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>12. I thought we would have made more progress by now</strong></h2>
<p>You don’t want to say it out loud, but you really do think you would have made more progress by now.</p>
<p>You look at all the overnight successes and think “How come that wasn’t me?” This only works, of course, until you look more closely at the overnight successes only to realize almost all of them were 5-15 years in the making.</p>
<p>The fact that your vision is bigger than your reality is paradoxically a sign that you’re a good leader.</p>
<p>So keep being mildly disappointed, because it will always spur you on to more.</p>
<p>I was talking recently to someone who became an ‘overnight’ TV star. When I really drilled down on his story, it went back to VHS tapes in the early nineties. No one knows that part of the story, but again, a lot of the time when people think someone just emerged overnight, it’s only because that leader has been working harder for years, sometimes decade.</p>
<p>The part about overnight success no one really understands is that it’s usually a very long night.</p>
<p>So keep working.</p>
<p>And one day when it’s over you’ll look back and be amazed at how much you actually accomplished.</p>
<p><em>The part about overnight success no one really understands is that it&#8217;s usually a very long night.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/12-secrets-most-leaders-wont-tell-you/&amp;text=The part about overnight success no one really understands is that it" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>How To Stay In It For the Long Haul</strong></h2>
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<p>All of the things I share above got me into an unhealthy place years ago in leadership. They led me to burnout.</p>
<p>It’s been over a decade since I burned out, and since then, I’ve learned how to live in a much healthier way. And while we all have bad days (I do too), the changes I’ve experienced in organizing my time, energy and priorities differently is monumental.</p>
<p>I’d love to help you get into a much better place in life and leadership.</p>
<p>That’s what my High Impact Leader Course is all about.</p>
<p>The <a href="https://thehighimpactleader.com/open-now" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">High Impact Leader course</a>, is an online, on-demand course designed to help you get time, energy and priorities working in your favour.</p>
<p>Here are what some alumni are saying about The High Impact Leader Course”</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>“Thank you, thank you, thank you for providing the course again. It has absolutely made an impact in my life and family already that I can’t even describe.” – First Priority, Clayton County, North Carolina</em></p>
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<p>Curious? Want to beat overwhelm, discouragement and frustration in leadership and have the time to reinvent yourself?</p>
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<h2><strong>What Are Your Secrets?</strong></h2>
<p>What thoughts do you have that you have a hard time admitting to anyone else?</p>
<p>I’d love to hear them.</p>
<p>And what’s yours experience with these 11?</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img width="250" height="250" src="https://church-planting.net/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/carey-nieuwhof.jpg" class="attachment-full size-full wp-post-image" alt="www.careynieuwhof.com" id="featured-image" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" decoding="async" loading="lazy" /></div><p>by Carey Nieuwhof: Most of us who get into full-time ministry do so because we sense a calling, not because it was a ‘career path’.</p>
<p>Chances are you got in this because you love God, deeply, right?</p>
<p>So it’s always a bit surprising and unusual then when ministry leaders find themselves struggling with the very God who called them into this in the first place. This is true whether you’re paid, bi-vocational or even a full-time volunteer.</p>
<p>Ministry can not only be <em>hazardous</em> to your spiritual health, it can be <strong>confusing</strong>.</p>
<p>But the good news is that struggling with God is normal. You are not alone.</p>
<p>The best leaders struggled with God.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>Jacob wrestled an angel.</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>Moses almost quit more than a few times.</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>Jeremiah tried to quit but couldn’t.</em></p>
<p>Today’s struggles might be a bit different, but in some ways struggle is inevitable.</p>
<p>I personally have struggled with every one of the five challenges I outline in this post.  And what’s amazing to me is that you can get through them. You really can.</p>
<p>Sometimes all you need to know is you’re not alone. And you’re not, even if you feel that way.</p>
<p>Here are 5 ways ministry leaders struggle in their relationship with God:</p>
<p><em>Ministry can not only be hazardous to your spiritual health, it can be deeply confusing.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/share?text=Ministry+can+not+only+be+hazardous+to+your+spiritual+health,+it+can+be+deeply+confusing.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof&amp;url=https://careynieuwhof.com/5-honest-struggles-most-church-leaders-dont-want-to-admit/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>1. You see setbacks in ministry as a personal statement from God about you</strong></h2>
<p>Hey, everybody thinks this way when life circumstances don’t tilt in their favor (why did God allow me to have cancer/lose this job/be in this place?). So it’s natural that this line of thinking would emerge in ministry.</p>
<p>Just because things aren’t going the way you want in ministry isn’t an automatic sign that God is angry with you. I’m always amazed that constant imprisonment didn’t cause Paul to second guess himself or God.</p>
<p>God isn’t always punishing you, even if it feels like he is.</p>
<p>The key is to take the setbacks in front of you seriously, not personally. You’ll be so much healthier.</p>
<p><em>Stop taking the setbacks in front of you personally. Take them seriously.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/share?text=Stop+taking+the+setbacks+in+front+of+you+personally.+Take+them+seriously.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof&amp;url=https://careynieuwhof.com/5-honest-struggles-most-church-leaders-dont-want-to-admit/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>2. You believe that greater faithfulness should result in greater impact in ministry </strong></h2>
<p>Ever tried to improve your personal devotional life so your church would do better? Gosh, I wish this wasn’t true but in the early days of ministry, I really thought greater personal fervor would automatically translate into greater ministry impact.</p>
<p>I’m all for a rich personal walk with God, but it’s really not a push-this-button-and-God-will-do-great-things-through-you kind of proposition. In fact, it’s a bit self-centered to think that way.</p>
<p>Pursue God, and pursue a great mission. Both are critical. But God doesn’t reward the most faithful with the best results.</p>
<p><em>God doesn’t always reward the most faithful with the best ‘results’.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/share?text=God+doesn" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>3. You are convinced God should protect you from pain </strong></h2>
<p>So here’s a confession. Much of the pain I’ve experienced in ministry is self-induced. I have created crises in my mind and in relationships around me. The solution for me was to confess my sin and realize so much of the pain around me was caused by the strife within me.</p>
<p><em>What if much of the pain around you was actually caused by the strife within you?</em><a href="https://twitter.com/share?text=What+if+much+of+the+pain+around+you+was+actually+caused+by+the+strife+within+you?&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof&amp;url=https://careynieuwhof.com/5-honest-struggles-most-church-leaders-dont-want-to-admit/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<p>As to the rest of the troubles that inevitably come our way? I seem to remember Jesus’ brother James <a href="http://bible.com/116/jas.1.2-4.nlt" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">saying we were supposed to throw a party when they come</a> and celebrate because God uses them to perfect us.</p>
<p>God doesn’t always protect us from pain. He uses it to grow us. And the part that’s self-induced? Get on your knees.</p>
<p><em>God doesn’t always protect us from pain. He uses it to grow us.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/share?text=God+doesn’t+always+protect+us+from+pain.+He+uses+it+to+grow+us.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof&amp;url=https://careynieuwhof.com/5-honest-struggles-most-church-leaders-dont-want-to-admit/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>4. You confuse your work life with your devotional life</strong></h2>
<p>I always ask myself “If I couldn’t do ministry tomorrow for whatever reason, what would be left of my life with Christ?” Hopefully, the answer is “lots” or “virtually everything”.</p>
<p>So my devotional life has little to do with what I’m teaching, and I try to pray about things I wouldn’t pray about if I wasn’t a pastor. But naturally, I also pray about things related to ministry.</p>
<p>Pretending you’re not a ministry leader in your relationship with God is a great way to stay vibrant as a ministry leader.</p>
<p><em>If you couldn’t do ministry tomorrow, what would be left of your life with Christ?</em><a href="https://twitter.com/share?text=If+you+couldn’t+do+ministry+tomorrow,+what+would+be+left+of+your+life+with+Christ?&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof&amp;url=https://careynieuwhof.com/5-honest-struggles-most-church-leaders-dont-want-to-admit/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>5. You find it hard to believe that God loves you simply because He loves you</strong></h2>
<p>Your identity is not based on what you do, but based on what Christ has done. I know you preach that, but you have a hard time believing it, don’t you?</p>
<p><em>Your identity is not based on what you do, but based on what Christ has done.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/share?text=Your+identity+is+not+based+on+what+you+do,+but+based+on+what+Christ+has+done.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof&amp;url=https://careynieuwhof.com/5-honest-struggles-most-church-leaders-dont-want-to-admit/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<p>Don’t confuse what you do with who you are in Christ. Need to hear that more clearly? I <a href="https://careynieuwhof.com/2013/05/for-every-leader-whos-ever-struggled-through-a-monday/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">wrote this one for every leader who’s ever struggled through a Monday</a>.</p>
<p>He loves you. He just does.</p>
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<p>These are five struggles I’ve experienced and have to regularly check in my own life.</p>
<p>What are you discovering? Leave a comment and let me know what you’ve seen.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://careynieuwhof.com/5-honest-struggles-most-church-leaders-dont-want-to-admit/" rel="nofollow">5 Honest Struggles Most Church Leaders Don’t Want To Admit</a> appeared first on <a href="https://careynieuwhof.com" rel="nofollow">Carey Nieuwhof</a>.</p>
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