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		<title>4 Pressures Every Leader Faces (and How to Overcome Them!)</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sean Cronin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2021 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>By Shawn Lovejoy: To wish every situation would be filled with ease and peace is to be naive. When circumstances go sideways, stress hits us head-on. Hear me leader… You are going to face pain. People are going to leave your team. Issues are going to arise. There will be [&#8230;]</p>
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<p class="">By Shawn Lovejoy: To wish every situation would be filled with ease and peace is to be naive. When circumstances go sideways, stress hits us head-on.</p>
<p class="">Hear me leader…</p>
<p class="">You are going to face pain.</p>
<p class="">People are going to leave your team.</p>
<p class="">Issues are going to arise.</p>
<p class="">There will be times you will mess something up.</p>
<p class="">Andy Stanley frames leadership as the reality of <em>“managing tension.”</em></p>
<p class="">Since part of your impact is in how you perform when there is stress and uncertainty;  I want to highlight some common pressures leaders just like you face and some keys on how to thrive in the middle of them.</p>
<h3>Leading Change</h3>
<p class="">You have to lead change in some form. Leadership requires the foresight and fortitude to initiate change.  In case you don’t know, change is hard! Leaders are often shocked by what is required to lead the necessary changes for your organization. Tension, hard conversations, telling someone &#8220;no&#8221; and being on an island around your idea can cause a leader to wish they had signed up for some other profession.</p>
<p class="">One key to overcoming the pressure of leading change is CONSISTENCY. You may not can control how well change is accepted or how fast it comes, because those variables depend on other people. The one thing you can influence during these seasons is your personal consistency. Doing what you say you will do or remaining steady in the face of failed plans earns you trust in the eyes of your followers. Change does not happen with good ideas, it happens with disciplined execution.  Be consistent to get the results you want.</p>
<p class=""><strong>Want more help with this? Here are</strong><a href="https://www.couragetolead.com/courage-to-lead-blog/three-necessities-in-navigating-change"><strong> 3 Necessities of Navigating Change</strong></a><strong>.</strong></p>
<h3>Self-doubt</h3>
<p class="">Self doubt is one of the most difficult hurdles to overcome in leadership. Self-doubt can become a persistent, powerful voice that holds us back from stepping out into our legacy! I talk with leaders about getting their “swagger” back or possessing a holy confidence. I believe every great leader possesses it! To get there, however, we have to overcome our tough self doubts.</p>
<p class="">How do you process your own insecurities while still leading every day? Get a coach! I can honestly not remember a time when I left a conversation with one of my coaches, when I did not come away inspired, encouraged, and more confident! I simply believe<a href="https://www.couragetolead.com/strategy"> every leader needs a coach</a>, for this, among many other reasons! Get a coach!</p>
<p class=""><a href="https://www.couragetolead.com/strategy"><strong>Can I can coach you a bit more?</strong></a><strong> There are actually</strong><a href="https://www.couragetolead.com/courage-to-lead-blog/3-signs-of-insecurity-and-how-to-overcome-it"><strong> 3 Signs of Insecurity…and some ways to overcome them.</strong></a></p>
<h3>Lack of Growth</h3>
<p class="">Seasons of growth aren’t called “seasons” by accident. Most leaders experience seasons with a lack of growth. It is a reality. Perhaps you’re experiencing slow or no growth right now. Be encouraged. You’re not the first leader to feel what you’re feeling and you won’t be the last. What I want you to do is use this season and be better on the other side of it.</p>
<p class="">Use this season to remind yourself WHY you do WHAT you do. This keeps your passion growing strong even if the results are growing slower. Most of WHAT we do is not all that sexy: meetings, spreadsheets, emails and events. WHY we do these makes all the difference. Passion and Urgency must rule the day to gain and maintain growth, so leverage this season to remember your WHY!</p>
<p class=""><strong>Another way I have coach leaders through these seasons is by helping them see some</strong><a href="https://www.couragetolead.com/courage-to-lead-blog/3-reasons-an-organization-stops-growing"><strong> Reasons Organizations Stop Growing</strong></a><strong> in the first place.</strong></p>
<h3>Fatigue</h3>
<p class="">Most of our energy as leaders is focused on conquering the next hill, what it will take to grow our organization or how to better ourselves. Hear me, these things matter! But they do not matter at the expense of your health. The majority of the leaders I talk to are simply tired! Do you find yourself committed to just go through the motions to get through your day? Fatigue can be damaging to your life and leadership, as well as those in constant contact with you.</p>
<p class="">How do you manage fatigue when there is still so much to do? First, it’s ok to admit that you’re tired. One huge step beyond admission is to schedule and take at least one consistent day off! Stop making excuses why you can’t. Your leadership journey is a JOURNEY! If you’re going to make the trip, you have to pace your route. Block off a day a week that is guarded to only do things that bring you life and revive your soul.</p>
<p class="">As a coach I find myself having to convince leaders<a href="https://www.couragetolead.com/courage-to-lead-blog/4-reasons-leaders-need-rest"> why they need REST</a>!</p>
<p class="">Stress doesn’t stop. Your impact doesn’t need to either.<a href="https://www.couragetolead.com/strategy"> </a></p>
<p class=""><a href="https://www.couragetolead.com/strategy">Coaching</a> actually gives perspective and peace in the middle of tension, helping you increase your capacity to lead through increased pressure.</p>
<p class=""><strong>Let’s schedule a</strong><a href="https://www.couragetolead.com/strategy"><strong> FREE Strategy Session</strong></a><strong> to discuss what coaching could look like for you!</strong></p>
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<p>Source: <a href="https://www.couragetolead.com/courage-to-lead-blog/pressures-every-leader-faces?utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed%3A+Blog-Couragetoleadcom+%28Blog+-+COURAGETOLEAD.COM%29" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wplink-edit="true">4 Pressures Every Leader Faces (and How to Overcome Them!)</a></p>
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		<title>CNLP 387: Harris III on How to Recover from Cynicism, Recapturing Wonder as a Leader and the Power of Story</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sean Cronin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2020 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>By Carey Nieuwhof: Harris III traveled the world as a teenage illusionist, making a million dollars by age 21 and losing it all at age 22. His growing cynicism almost took him down, but around age 30, he learned to recapture wonder. He explains how wonder can not only recapture [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://church-planting.net/cnlp-387-harris-iii-on-how-to-recover-from-cynicism-recapturing-wonder-as-a-leader-and-the-power-of-story/">CNLP 387: Harris III on How to Recover from Cynicism, Recapturing Wonder as a Leader and the Power of Story</a> appeared first on <a href="https://church-planting.net">Passion for Planting</a>.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img width="250" height="250" src="https://church-planting.net/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/carey-nieuwhof.jpg" class="attachment-full size-full wp-post-image" alt="www.careynieuwhof.com" id="featured-image" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" decoding="async" loading="lazy" /></div><p>By Carey Nieuwhof: Harris III traveled the world as a teenage illusionist, making a million dollars by age 21 and losing it all at age 22. His growing cynicism almost took him down, but around age 30, he learned to recapture wonder.</p>
<p>He explains how wonder can not only recapture your personal hope (and faith), but how it’s an essential ingredient to leadership and crafting a story that rallies people.</p>
<p>Welcome to <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/carey-nieuwhof-leadership/id912753163?mt=2" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Episode 387 of the podcast</a>. Listen and access the show notes below or search for the Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast on <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/carey-nieuwhof-leadership/id912753163?mt=2" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Apple Podcasts</a> or wherever you get your podcasts and listen for free.</p>
<p>Plus, in this episode’s What I’m Thinking About segment, Carey talks about how you can cultivate creativity.</p>
<h2 style="text-align: left;"><strong>Guest Links</strong></h2>
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<p style="text-align: center;"> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/harrisiii/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Instagram</a> | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/harristhethird" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/HarrisIII" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Twitter</a> | <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/HarristheThird" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">YouTube</a> | <a href="https://harrisiii.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Website</a></p>
<h2 style="text-align: left;"><strong>Episode Links</strong></h2>
<h3><strong>Dwell App</strong></h3>
<p data-pm-slice="1 1 []"><a href="https://dwellapp.io/carey" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Dwell is an audio Bible app</a> with a simple mission: To help you get in the Word and stay in the Word! They have loads of inspiring voices, Bible translations, and original background music.</p>
<p>Some of Dwell App’s features include:</p>
<p>Listening Plans — Start a daily habit of engaging with God through one of Dwell’s many Bible listening plans.<br />
Playlists — Dwell has tons of Scripture playlists, like ones based on mood.<br />
Dwell Mode — Use Dwell mode to meditate, memorize and pray while listening to Scripture.<br />
And, brand new, a sleep timer — You and your family can fall asleep to your favorite books and stories of the Bible without losing your spot or draining your battery!</p>
<p><a href="https://dwellapp.io/carey" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Dwell App makes a great gift</a>, so skip the wrapping and bless someone with the gift of Dwell this holiday season.</p>
<p><strong>Get Dwell today by going to <a href="https://dwellapp.io/carey" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">dwellapp.io/carey</a> and get 20% off an annual or lifetime subscription.</strong></p>
<h3><strong>Ministry Boost</strong></h3>
<p data-pm-slice="1 1 []">My friends at Ministry Boost know you want your staff to be effective leaders, especially in leading their volunteers. The problem is, so much has changed, which makes staff feel stuck and discouraged.</p>
<p><a href="http://ministryboost.org/carey" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Ministry Boost believes that church leaders should rethink our approach to leading volunteers</a> in light of new opportunities online, volunteers who aren’t ready to serve, and the different needs for what ministry looks like currently.</p>
<p>They know what it’s like because they lead in local church ministry just like you, which is why they’re giving you free access to their brand new course, Volunteer Reboot. <a href="http://ministryboost.org/carey" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Volunteer Reboot includes 6 sessions on how to reboot your approach to volunteers so your ministry can thrive now</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Volunteer Reboot is free for listeners of this podcast, and you can get access at <a href="http://ministryboost.org/carey" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">ministryboost.org/carey</a>.</strong></p>
<h2><strong>CONVERSATION LINKS</strong></h2>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Wonder-Switch-Difference-Between-Limiting/dp/0310360994/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;linkCode=sl1&amp;tag=careynieuwhof-20&amp;linkId=391106818590985de392e8b066f578f5&amp;language=en_US" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><em>The Wonder Switch</em> by Harris III</a></p>
<p><a href="https://storygatherings.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Story Gatherings</a></p>
<p><a href="https://istoria.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Istoria</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Didnt-See-Coming-Overcoming-Experiences/dp/0735291330/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;linkCode=sl1&amp;tag=careynieuwhof-20&amp;linkId=2fb4c9a8e4bb48c9fa23b2cdf13e9284&amp;language=en_US" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><em>Didn’t See It Coming</em> by Carey Nieuwhof</a></p>
<p><a href="https://careynieuwhof.com/better-thinker/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">5 Simple Changes That Can Make You a Better Thinker in the Next 7 Days by Carey Nieuwhof</a></p>
<p><a href="http://everybodyhates2020.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Win Carey’s Leadership Bundle Giveaway!</a></p>
<p>Text CAREY to 33777 to join more than 78,000 subscribers to our leadership content</p>
<p><em>*As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases.</em></p>
<h2><strong>INSIGHTS FROM HARRIS</strong></h2>
<p><strong>1. The rules of persuasion and illusion are universal</strong></p>
<p>So, what actually is magic and illusion? And, what makes it work? According to Harris, there are a set of tactics and strategies that magicians use to persuade their audiences into amazement. Those same tactics can also be used by speakers, salespeople, marketers and pastors.</p>
<p><strong>2. The more you know, the more you see, the more cynical you become</strong></p>
<p>Many illusionists (and leaders in general) can become cynical because they “see how the magic is made,” and lose the ability to wonder or imagine for themselves. Knowledge and cynicism usually come hand-in-hand, and as a leader you need to protect yourself from it.</p>
<p><strong>3. When telling stories, focus on connection not conversion</strong></p>
<p>So many leaders (especially pastors) are looking to communicate a point, or get a conversion, when they tell a story to an audience. Harris has learned that a story is much more effective when you aim for connection with a story rather than conversion.</p>
<h2><strong>Quotes from Episode 387</strong></h2>
<p><a class="ss-ctt-tweet" href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?text=A+story's+greatest+power+is+not+in+its+ability+to+convert,+it's+in+its+ability+to+connect.+@HarrisIII&amp;url=https://careynieuwhof.com/feed/?utm_source=twitter&amp;utm_medium=website&amp;utm_campaign=SocialSnap&amp;via=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener" data-title="Click to Tweet">A story&#8217;s greatest power is not in its ability to convert, it&#8217;s in its ability to connect. @HarrisIII</a></p>
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<p><a class="ss-ctt-tweet" href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?text=We+came+into+the+world+with+the+wonder+switch+turned+on,+so+wonder+is+our+natural+state+of+being.+@HarrisIII&amp;url=https://careynieuwhof.com/feed/?utm_source=twitter&amp;utm_medium=website&amp;utm_campaign=SocialSnap&amp;via=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener" data-title="Click to Tweet">We came into the world with the wonder switch turned on, so wonder is our natural state of being. @HarrisIII</a></p>
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<p><a class="ss-ctt-tweet" href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?text=Wonder+is+connected+to+innovation+because+wonder+gives+you+permission+to+believe+in+that+new+story.+@HarrisIII&amp;url=https://careynieuwhof.com/feed/?utm_source=twitter&amp;utm_medium=website&amp;utm_campaign=SocialSnap&amp;via=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener" data-title="Click to Tweet">Wonder is connected to innovation because wonder gives you permission to believe in that new story. @HarrisIII</a></p>
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<p><a class="ss-ctt-tweet" href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?text=Magic+tricks+work+so+easily+because+human+beings+think+that+the+truth+is+equal+to+what+our+senses+perceive.+@HarrisIII&amp;url=https://careynieuwhof.com/feed/?utm_source=twitter&amp;utm_medium=website&amp;utm_campaign=SocialSnap&amp;via=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener" data-title="Click to Tweet">Magic tricks work so easily because human beings think that the truth is equal to what our senses perceive. @HarrisIII</a></p>
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<p><a class="ss-ctt-tweet" href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?text=Facts+that+are+absent+of+vulnerability,+absent+of+illustration,+absent+of+empathy,+lessen+the+impact+of+all+those+facts.+@HarrisIII&amp;url=https://careynieuwhof.com/feed/?utm_source=twitter&amp;utm_medium=website&amp;utm_campaign=SocialSnap&amp;via=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener" data-title="Click to Tweet">Facts that are absent of vulnerability, absent of illustration, absent of empathy, lessen the impact of all those facts. @HarrisIII</a></p>
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<p><a class="ss-ctt-tweet" href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?text=The+secret+to+being+a+great+magician+is+the+same+thing+that+makes+you+a+great+communicator+on+stage;+your+ability+to+tell+a+story.+@HarrisIII&amp;url=https://careynieuwhof.com/feed/?utm_source=twitter&amp;utm_medium=website&amp;utm_campaign=SocialSnap&amp;via=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener" data-title="Click to Tweet">The secret to being a great magician is the same thing that makes you a great communicator on stage; your ability to tell a story. @HarrisIII</a></p>
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<p><a class="ss-ctt-tweet" href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?text=Smart+phones+have+psychologically+reconditioned+an+entire+generation+now+to+feel+really+uncomfortable+with+mystery,+to+the+point+where+wonder+feels+disruptive.+@HarrisIII&amp;url=https://careynieuwhof.com/feed/?utm_source=twitter&amp;utm_medium=website&amp;utm_campaign=SocialSnap&amp;via=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener" data-title="Click to Tweet">Smart phones have psychologically reconditioned an entire generation now to feel really uncomfortable with mystery, to the point where wonder feels disruptive. @HarrisIII</a></p>
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5 Keys To Better Digital Preaching<br />
How To Keep You And Your Team Out Of Burnout<br />
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<p>By: Brandon A. Cox I Want to Live In the 8th of Romans .et_post_meta_wrapper This is where I often live… the 7th of Romans. I don’t really understand myself, for I want to do what is right, but I don’t do it. Instead, I do what I hate… it is [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>This is where I often live… the 7th of Romans.</p>
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<p>I don’t really understand myself, for I want to do what is right, but I don’t do it. Instead, I do what I hate… it is sin living in me that does it. And I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature. I want to do what is right, but I can’t. I want to do what is good, but I don’t I don’t want to do what is wrong, but I do it anyway… Who will free me from this life that is dominated by sin and death?</p>
<p>Romans 7:14-25 NLT</p>
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<p>Thankfully, at the end of that chapter, there is a ticket out: <em>“The answer is in Jesus Christ our Lord…”</em> (Romans 7:25 NLT)</p>
<p>The 8th of Romans looks like a completely different neighborhood, and I’m determined to move into it! In the 8th of Romans…</p>
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<li><em>“now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus…”</em> (v. 1)</li>
<li><em>“the power of the life-giving Spirit has freed you from the power of sin that leads to death.”</em> (v. 2)</li>
<li><em>“God declared an end to sin’s control over us by giving his Son as a sacrifice for our sins.”</em> (v. 3)</li>
<li><em>“letting the Spirit control your minds leads to life and peace.</em><em>“</em> (v. 6)</li>
<li><em>“the Spirit gives you life because you have been made right with God.”</em> (v. 10)</li>
<li><em>“all who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God.”</em> (v. 14)</li>
<li><em>“his Spirit joins with our spirit to affirm that we are God’s children.”</em> (v. 16)</li>
<li><em>“And since we are his children, we are his heirs.”</em> (v. 17)</li>
<li><em>“we have the Holy Spirit within us as a foretaste of future glory.”</em> (v. 23)</li>
<li><em>“And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness.”</em> (v. 26)</li>
<li><em>“the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words.”</em> (v. 26)</li>
<li><em>“the Spirit pleads for us in harmony with God’s own will.”</em> (v. 27)</li>
<li><em>“God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.”</em> (v. 28)</li>
<li><em>“If God is for us, who can ever be against us?</em><em>“</em> (v. 31)</li>
<li><em>“overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us.”</em> (v. 37)</li>
</ul>
<p>And of course, the grand conclusion:</p>
<blockquote>
<p>I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow–not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below–indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.</p>
<p>Romans 8:38-39 NLT</p>
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<p>The 7th of Romans, for the follower of Jesus, is just temporary housing. Our real home is the 8th of Romans. And every time we yield ourselves to the life-giving power of the Holy Spirit, we live as more than conquerors.</p>
<p>I don’t have to live under sin’s tyranny any longer. I don’t have to walk in fear and anxiety over my eternal destiny. I don’t have to succumb to temptation. I can pray and connect with God. I can enjoy a foretaste of heaven to come. I can walk in the confidence that I am God’s child, that he is my Father, and that I’m on my way home for good.</p>
<p>If you’ve turned from sin, from self, from unbelief to trust and follow Jesus, welcome to the neighborhood! You’re going to love living in the 8th of Romans!</p>
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<p><em>By Jeff  Henderson</em></p>
<p>Have you ever heard a boring presentation?</p>
<p>Sometimes when I speak to business groups, I ask them to raise their hand if they’ve ever experienced one. Everyone laughs and raises their hands.</p>
<p>Then I ask how many of us think we might have been the reason someone else raised their hand.</p>
<p>Public speaking certainly can be daunting but it’s inevitable in any organization. This isn’t limited to speaking on a platform, though. I define public speaking as any form of communication where you are sharing an idea or information to another human being.</p>
<p>When people tell me they aren’t a public speaker, I ask if they ever speak in meetings. The answer is, of course, yes. Then I congratulate them. They have spoken in a public setting. They are now officially a public speaker.</p>
<p>This is especially true for leaders. Eventually, leadership comes with a microphone.</p>
<p><em>Eventually, leadership comes with a microphone.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/the-4-different-communication-styles-and-how-each-can-improve/&amp;text=Eventually, leadership comes with a microphone.&amp;via=JeffHenderson&amp;related=JeffHenderson" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<p>Literally or figuratively, when we communicate we are handed a microphone and asked to lead. It could be our family, a friendship, a company, a team, a homeowners association (God be with you), a school, a volunteer group, etc.</p>
<p>This is why as leaders we must be very intentional about becoming better communicators. There are several reasons why but this one might be the most important:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">The better we communicate, the better we lead.</p>
<p><em>Eventually, leadership comes with a microphone.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/the-4-different-communication-styles-and-how-each-can-improve/&amp;text=Eventually, leadership comes with a microphone.&amp;via=JeffHenderson&amp;related=JeffHenderson" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<p>This is true whether we are in front of five people or 500. If we aren’t communicating clearly and effectively, we put a lid on the potential of the organization and our leadership.</p>
<p>The problem is that public speaking doesn’t come easily for many of us. In fact, it’s been said there are two great fears in life: death and public speaking.</p>
<p>I understand. And yet, the reality is that most great things in history (and bad) have happened when someone got up to speak and rallied people around their idea.</p>
<h2><strong>The 4 different presenter voices</strong></h2>
<p>For this to happen in your organization and mine, there are a few techniques we can use to help us improve as communicators and leaders. One of the most effective techniques is to discover what I call is your “dominant presenters voice.”</p>
<p>Over the last 20 years, I have coached business leaders, preachers and teachers on how to make their next presentation their best presentation. During this time, I’ve noticed there are four presenter voices and that we usually have one of these as a primary voice.</p>
<p>When we discover which one of these four voices is our dominant voice, it allows us to leverage the strength of that voice while avoiding the weakness. This helps in a variety of ways but most importantly it helps in our preparation process.</p>
<p>This is why discovering your presenter voice is so important. The better you prepare, the better you present.</p>
<p><em>The better you prepare, the better you present.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/the-4-different-communication-styles-and-how-each-can-improve/&amp;text=The better you prepare, the better you present.&amp;via=JeffHenderson&amp;related=JeffHenderson" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<p>One of the reasons many leaders struggle with their communication is due to the fact that they aren’t aware of their primary presenter voice. I have seen dozens of leaders improve their presentation skills almost overnight by simply understanding how to leverage their particular voice.</p>
<p>Too often, we spend way too much time on our keynote slides and not enough on how we are going to communicate what’s on those slides. How we communicate is just as important as what we communicate.</p>
<p>Knowing this, I want to briefly describe the voices outlining the strength and weakness of each one. I have listed an example of a great communicator to help with the description of each voice. Additionally, I’ll give you a few questions to ask yourself during the preparation process.</p>
<p>After you’ve read the description, the best next step is to take the Four Presenter Voices Test. <a href="https://for-company.ck.page/554fda95b7" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">It’s free and can be found at this link.</a></p>
<p>Before you take the test though, let’s describe the Four Presenter Voices of Leadership:</p>
<p>They are voice of the Teacher, the Motivator, the Storyteller and the Visionary.</p>
<p><em>How we communicate is just as important as what we communicate.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/the-4-different-communication-styles-and-how-each-can-improve/&amp;text=How we communicate is just as important as what we communicate.&amp;via=JeffHenderson&amp;related=JeffHenderson" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>1. The Teacher</strong></h2>
<p>The Voice of the Teacher is instructional with explanation as the goal. If you have the voice of a teacher, you have great content. One of your challenges is trying to fit all of your great content within the allotted time, right?</p>
<p><em>The Voice of the Teacher is instructional with explanation as the goal.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/the-4-different-communication-styles-and-how-each-can-improve/&amp;text=The Voice of the Teacher is instructional with explanation as the goal.&amp;via=JeffHenderson&amp;related=JeffHenderson" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<p>The weakness of this voice can potentially be a lack of connection with the crowd. This is a hard truth for teachers to embrace. Teachers can assume that great content automatically makes for a great presentation. This is a dangerous assumption to make.</p>
<p>We all know teachers who knew their content very well but lost their audience in the first five minutes. This is why the first part of a presentation is vitally important for those who have this voice. They must work really hard to connect with their audience by giving them a reason or reasons to keep listening.</p>
<p>When you combine great content with a strong connection with the audience, you have the recipe for a great presentation. Content alone rarely works because it doesn’t necessarily give the audience a reason to listen.</p>
<p>Knowing this, here are a few questions the teacher must answer for their audience in the first five minutes of the presentation: “Why should I listen?” “What’s at stake if I don’t?” “What compelling problem will this solve in my life?”</p>
<p>The great news if you have this voice is that you have strong content. Leverage this strength and avoid the weakness by answering these questions in the preparation process. It’s how you’ll make your next presentation your best one yet.</p>
<p>Example: Coach John Wooden</p>
<p><em>When you combine great content with a strong connection with the audience, you have the recipe for a great presentation. </em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/the-4-different-communication-styles-and-how-each-can-improve/&amp;text=When you combine great content with a strong connection with the audience, you have the recipe for a great presentation. &amp;via=JeffHenderson&amp;related=JeffHenderson" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>2. The Motivator</strong></h2>
<p>The Voice of the Motivator is action-oriented with personal change as the goal. In many ways, the voices of the Teacher and Motivator are the complete opposite. For example, the first 5 – 10 minutes of a presentation for a Motivator is easy. They lean into their natural gifting as a communicator. They quickly engage the crowd and bring energy to the presentation.</p>
<p>However, if they aren’t careful, as the presentation moves along the energy and connection begins to wane. The reason for this is that those with the Motivator voice can lean more on inspiration and less on content and clarity.</p>
<p>When I coach leaders, I can usually tell whether a leader who has this voice has done the hard work of preparation by around the 10 – 15 minute mark. At this point, they are into the content portion and this is where the weakness of this voice begins to grow.</p>
<p>It’s why I ask leaders with the Motivator voice to work twice as hard on the middle section of their presentations. To do this, here are a few questions a motivator must answer in the preparation process: “What do I want the audience to do with this information?” “Are the action steps clear?” “Am I combining motivation with helpful content?”</p>
<p>Example: Oprah Winfrey</p>
<p><em>The Voice of the Motivator is action-oriented with personal change as the goal.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/the-4-different-communication-styles-and-how-each-can-improve/&amp;text=The Voice of the Motivator is action-oriented with personal change as the goal.&amp;via=JeffHenderson&amp;related=JeffHenderson" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>3. The Storyteller</strong></h2>
<p>The Voice of the Storyteller is engaging, with emotional connection with the crowd as the goal. So many of history’s best communicators had the voice of the storyteller. As you well know, stories are often more memorable than content. In fact, Dan and Chip Heath in their book, Made to Stick, encourage presenters to focus primarily on stories.</p>
<p><em>The Voice of the Storyteller is engaging, with emotional connection with the crowd as the goal.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/the-4-different-communication-styles-and-how-each-can-improve/&amp;text=The Voice of the Storyteller is engaging, with emotional connection with the crowd as the goal.&amp;via=JeffHenderson&amp;related=JeffHenderson" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<p>If this voice is your strength, you have a huge advantage on the rest of us because you can easily draw your audience into your presentation.</p>
<p>However, like the other voices this one has a weakness to avoid.</p>
<p>The weakness of the Storyteller can often be a lack of direction and clarity regarding the purpose of the presentation. If you’re not careful, it can seem like you’re just sharing stories with no purpose.</p>
<p>This is why the Storyteller must have a clear destination and purpose for the talk. During the preparation process they must answer questions such as, “How does this story connect to my message?” “Where am I taking the audience?” “What is the message that these stories illuminate and illustrate?”</p>
<p>Example: Abraham Lincoln</p>
<p><em>The weakness of the Storyteller can often be a lack of direction and clarity regarding the purpose of the presentation.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/the-4-different-communication-styles-and-how-each-can-improve/&amp;text=The weakness of the Storyteller can often be a lack of direction and clarity regarding the purpose of the presentation.&amp;via=JeffHenderson&amp;related=JeffHenderson" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>4. The Visionary</strong></h2>
<p>The Voice of the Visionary is inspiring with organizational/world change as the goal.</p>
<p>Visionary leaders have a way of helping us see something that currently doesn’t exist. They turn good intention into reality. They help change the world and part of the way they do it is through communication and presentations.</p>
<p>The weakness of the Visionary voice is clearly articulating the how behind the why of the change. This is tricky because so often the how is unclear, which is understandable. However, if over time, there is no substantial way to help turn the intention into reality, the talk simply becomes rhetoric.</p>
<p>The question the visionary must ultimately answer is, “How are we going to accomplish this?” “What are we going to do to bring about these results?” “What is our plan of action?”</p>
<p>Example: Martin Luther King, Jr.</p>
<p>Now that you know the strengths and weaknesses of the Four Presenter Voices, the next step is to <a href="https://for-company.ck.page/554fda95b7" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">take the test.</a> Once you have determined your voice, apply that to your next presentation. As you do, you will take a big step toward making that next presentation your best presentation.</p>
<p><em>The Voice of the Visionary is inspiring with organizational/world change as the goal.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/the-4-different-communication-styles-and-how-each-can-improve/&amp;text=The Voice of the Visionary is inspiring with organizational/world change as the goal.&amp;via=JeffHenderson&amp;related=JeffHenderson" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>Want to take your communication to the next level?</strong></h2>
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<p>If you are someone who communicates from the stage, what are you doing to constantly improve?</p>
<p>If you’re ready to start preaching better sermons and reaching the unchurched without selling out? Then it’s time to start using the right tips, lessons, and strategies for communicating better.</p>
<p>The Art of Better Preaching Course is a 12 session video training with a comprehensive, interactive workbook that will help you create, write, and deliver better sermons. The course contains the lessons Mark Clark (lead pastor of  Village Church, a growing mega-church in post-Christian Vancouver) and I have learned, taught, and used over decades of being professional communicators.</p>
<p>This is the complete course you need to start preaching better sermons, including:</p>
<p>7 preaching myths it’s time to bust forever<br />
The 5 keys to preaching sermons to unchurched people (that will keep them coming back)<br />
How to discover the power in the text (and use it to drive your sermon)<br />
The specific characteristics of sermons that reach people in today’s world<br />
Why you need to ditch your sermon notes (and how to do it far more easily than you think.)<br />
How to keep your heart and mind fresh over the long run</p>
<p>And far more! Plus you get an interactive workbook and some bonus resources that will help you write amazing messages week after week.</p>
<p>In <a href="https://www.theartofbetterpreaching.com/now-open" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">the Art of Better Preaching</a>, Mark and I share everything we’ve learned about communicating in a way that will help your church grow without compromising biblical integrity. We cover detailed training on everything from interacting with the biblical text to delivering a talk without using notes, to writing killer bottom lines that people will remember for years.</p>
<p>Don’t miss out! <a href="https://www.theartofbetterpreaching.com/now-open" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Check it out today and gain instant access</a>.</p>
<h2><strong>Which type of communicator are you? </strong></h2>
<p>I’d love to hear where this shows up in your leadership.</p>
<p>Leave a comment below and let me know!</p>
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<p>by Carey Nieuwhof: The problem with many leaders is that there is a gap between what they want to see happen and the courage it takes to get there.</p>
<p>You dream of a radical new future, but then you answer email all day, go to meetings, inhale caffeine and go home before it’s too late with far too much of whatever-you-did-today (what <em>did</em> I do again today?) leftover for a boring repeat tomorrow.</p>
<p>And if you drill down a little further, you’ll often find that what lurks under the tedium of every day is…fear. It’s just easier to answer email and be in meetings all day instead of making the bold moves you know you need to make to secure a better future.</p>
<p>To put it as eloquently as possible, that pattern stinks.</p>
<p>To accomplish a radically new future, you will have to do radically different things.</p>
<p>This scares the socks off of most of us. After all, risk is for risk-takers, and many of us are not crazy risk-takers.</p>
<p>So the question becomes, when you realize fear is holding your back, how do you act? How do you push past your fear?</p>
<p>Well, start with small steps.</p>
<p>Small victories over fear quickly become larger ones because like any good muscle, the more you practice overcoming your fears, the more fear you overcome.</p>
<p><em>To accomplish a radically new future, you will have to do radically different things.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/7-easy-risks-every-leader-should-take-today/&amp;text=To accomplish a radically new future, you will have to do radically different things.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>The End of the Road for the Timid is Not Awesome</strong></h2>
<p>Another way to get motivated to grow bolder in your leadership is to consider the alternative, which is, well, not good at all.</p>
<p>It’s simple. If you fail to take risks in your leadership:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Your organization will experience few breakthroughs and likely continue down a path  to decline and irrelevance.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">You will leave leadership without any sense of fulfillment or accomplishment.</p>
<p>Here’s what’s worse. From a distance, it’s hard to tell the difference between a fearful leader and a lazy leader. Why? Well, while the motivation is different, the outcome is often indistinguishable.</p>
<p><em>It can be difficult to tell the difference between a fearful leader and a lazy leader.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/7-easy-risks-every-leader-should-take-today/&amp;text=It can be difficult to tell the difference between a fearful leader and a lazy leader.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<p>I believe risk-taking is both a habit and a mindset. Take a few steps toward tackling small challenges, and soon you’ll be up for the bigger ones.</p>
<p>At the same time, if you’re a natural risk-taker, you may feel an urge the older you get to rest on your laurels. Don’t.</p>
<p>Even taking risks like the ones below will prime the pump for future change and transformation, which, by the way, is always in season.</p>
<p>After all, the next generation doesn’t care what you did yesterday.</p>
<p><em>The next generation doesn&#8217;t care what you did yesterday.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/7-easy-risks-every-leader-should-take-today/&amp;text=The next generation doesn" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>7 Risks Any Leader Can Take Today</strong></h2>
<p>So, if you want to flex your risk-muscle for the first time or the 1000th time, here are 7 things you can do today to get started:</p>
<h2><strong>1. Start something you don’t know how to finish</strong></h2>
<p>This can be truly awesome. Tackling things you know how to do is a sure path to stagnation and eventual boredom.</p>
<p>What’s that project at work that scares the life out of you? Start it. Today. And see where it goes. You will figure it out. You will.</p>
<p>Most people who make a dent in the universe had no idea what they were doing when they started.</p>
<p>Why would it be any different with you?</p>
<p><em>People who put a dent in the universe usually had no idea what they were doing when they started. Why would it be any different with you?</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/7-easy-risks-every-leader-should-take-today/&amp;text=People who put a dent in the universe usually had no idea what they were doing when they started. Why would it be any different with you?&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>2. Do what you’ve been thinking of doing but haven’t done yet</strong></h2>
<p>We all have things we’ve been thinking of doing for years that might be doable. But we haven’t started yet.</p>
<p>Just do it. Seriously.</p>
<p>Make the call. Send the text. Clean out that drawer. Write page one of the book you’re terrified to start.</p>
<p>True leaders have a bias for great action, not just great thinking.</p>
<p><em>True leaders have a bias for great action, not just great thinking.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/7-easy-risks-every-leader-should-take-today/&amp;text=True leaders have a bias for great action, not just great thinking.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>3. Be generous when you don’t feel like it</strong></h2>
<p>Yes, generosity is a risk. Being financially generous when you don’t feel like you have the funds to be generous is a risk.</p>
<p>Being generous with praise when you don’t feel like praising someone is a risk.</p>
<p>In a world where there are a thousand reasons to be stingy, generosity is a risk.</p>
<p>But generosity is the key to developing an abundance mentality. And people with an abundance mentality often end up taking more risks.</p>
<p>So start by thanking someone who deserves some thanks even if you don’t feel like giving it. Or give some money away. You may surprise yourself at what you get back.</p>
<p><em>In a world where there are a thousand reasons to be stingy, generosity is a risk.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/7-easy-risks-every-leader-should-take-today/&amp;text=In a world where there are a thousand reasons to be stingy, generosity is a risk.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>4. Set a goal you think is impossible to reach</strong></h2>
<p>The reason you won’t set a daring goal is because you think it’s impossible. Which is exactly why you should set it.</p>
<p>It can be small. When I began seriously and consistently blogging 7 years ago, I set a crazy traffic goal of reaching 100,000 page views a year. I thought it would be impossible. But that goal motivated me to write three times a week, week in and week out.</p>
<p>I had no idea that in my first year full year of dedicated blogging, I would realize 7x that goal…reaching over 700,000 page views. That was in 2013.</p>
<p>Three years later, this blog sees over 6 million page views a year.</p>
<p>If someone had told me that when I started, I would have laughed. The thought still astonishes and humbles me.</p>
<p>But here’s some truth for you: People who set goals accomplish more than people who don’t.</p>
<p><em>People who set goals accomplish more than people who don&#8217;t.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/7-easy-risks-every-leader-should-take-today/&amp;text=People who set goals accomplish more than people who don" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>5. Be vulnerable</strong></h2>
<p>Yes, vulnerability is also a risk.</p>
<p>Bring a close friend in on a struggle you haven’t talked to anyone about yet.</p>
<p>Get over your fear of telling your team you don’t know the answer (I promise you they already know).</p>
<p>Being vulnerable sets you up for accepting the failure that inevitably accompanies risk…that failure you’re so scared of.</p>
<p>Being vulnerable today will prepare you for a bit of failure tomorrow on your way to greater accomplishments.</p>
<h2><strong>6. Give someone else an opportunity you were going to take for yourself</strong></h2>
<p>It’s a risk to trust others with something you care about, isn’t it? Which is why you need to do it.</p>
<p>Pick an opportunity you were personally going to do and invite someone else to do it. This will not only help you be more generous with your leadership but this will also position you to create a stronger team moving forward.</p>
<p>As the saying goes when it comes to accomplishment, if you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go further, go with a team.</p>
<p><em>It&#8217;s a risk to trust others with something you care about. Which is why you need to do it.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/7-easy-risks-every-leader-should-take-today/&amp;text=It" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>7. Take quitting off the table</strong></h2>
<p>When you’re afraid, you think about quitting, don’t you?</p>
<p>So take it off the table. Just decide you’re in for the long haul and get moving.</p>
<p>It’s riskier to stay and try than it is to quit and leave.</p>
<p>In the same way that couples who take divorce off the table usually find a way to work through their issues, you will find a way to work through your issues if you move quitting off the table.</p>
<p><em>It&#8217;s riskier to stay and try than it is to quit and leave.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/7-easy-risks-every-leader-should-take-today/&amp;text=It" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>Invest in Yourself</strong></h2>
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<p>It’s ironic, the better a leader you become, the less coaching you would think you’d need.</p>
<p>Just the opposite is true. The better you become, the more you need. Just ask any professional athlete.</p>
<p>If you want to take your leadership and life to a new leader, I’d love to challenge you to take the <a href="https://thehighimpactleader.com/open-now" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">High Impact Leader Course</a>. It’s designed to help you get time, energy and priorities working <em>for</em> you, not against you.</p>
<p>I’ve helped over 3000 leaders free up hundreds of hours each year and often 3 hours a day to do what they feel they never have time for and get healthier in the process.</p>
<p>My <a href="https://thehighimpactleader.com/open-now" rel="noopener">High Impact Leader course</a>, is my online, on-demand course designed to help you get time, energy and priorities working in your favour.</p>
<p>It’s perfect for leaders who feel like they never have enough time in the day to get the really important things done.</p>
<p>Many leaders who have taken it are recovering 3 productive hours <em>a day</em>.  That’s about 1000 hours of found time each year. That’s a lot of time for what matters most.</p>
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<h2><strong>In the meantime</strong></h2>
<p>What other risks do you think leaders can take that will set us up for the future?</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Oct 2019 09:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>by Discipleship.org: Are you a disciple making rookie? Rook • ie Meaning: A new recruit, especially in the army or police. A member of an athletic team in his first full season. In sports, rookies represent hope. Some arrive to the team as hyped prospects expected to be the future [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><strong>Rook • ie</strong></h2>
<p class=""><em>Meaning: A new recruit, especially in the army or police. A member of an athletic team in his first full season.</em></p>
<p class="">In sports, rookies represent hope. Some arrive to the team as hyped prospects expected to be the future of the franchise. Others are unknown players who have defied expectations to get there. Fans watch rookies eagerly because they each unfold a unique story. How will this one work out?</p>
<p class="">At some point <em>every</em> disciple maker was a rookie. I still remember the first meeting I had as a discipler. I had prepared and prayed a lot for my meeting with Brad and as we sat down together I was nearly shaking with fear!</p>
<p class="">Like most disciple making rookies, I was afraid of so many things: looking stupid, coming on too strong, and most of all, failing. I lacked what every rookie lacks: experience. And as you know, there’s no substitute for experience.</p>
<p class="">Experience is <em>earned</em>. It’s impossible to get experience by completing discipleship curriculum or listening to sermons. In fact, no amount of disciple making knowledge or understanding can make someone a disciple maker. Disciple makers are made by making disciples. And since the process of making a disciple is never without challenge, each experience has the potential to bring growth.</p>
<p class="">I’m no longer a disciple making rookie. Somehow, I’ve accumulated over twenty years of disciple making experience (I don’t feel that old!). My experience is broad and deep. I’ve discipled younger students and older adults, men and women (in triads), Americans and Asians (Africans too), new believers and seasoned Christians, extroverts and introverts; you get the picture.</p>
<p class="">Like a wily veteran on a sports team, I want rookie disciple makers to learn from my mistakes and the mistakes I’ve seen others make. It turns out that most rookie disciple makers make similar mistakes. So, this post is the first in the “Rookie Mistakes” series.</p>
<p class="">Let’s start with the biggest mistake made by rookie disciple makers. What is it? Rookie disciple makers are often driven by fear instead of trust.</p>
<p class="">Unlike other mistakes, the posture of fear drives rookie disciple makers to make decisions that are self-protective rather than Jesus modeled. Instead of discipling a person who is FAT, they disciple someone who is friendly. This protects them from being rejected. Instead of using the Bible as the main tool in discipling they use curriculum. This keeps them from being wrong. Instead of formally inviting someone to start being discipled, they keep the relationship loose and undefined. This keeps them from being accountable. Instead of opening up about their struggles, they hide behind tools. And there are still other ways that fear pollutes disciple making.</p>
<p class="">Fear may never completely go away in disciple making, but it doesn’t have to drive your discipling practices. Veteran disciple makers have learned to manage it by marinating in these two truths:</p>
<h2><strong>1. Failure Is an Option</strong></h2>
<p class="">Are you ready to fail at disciple making? I’m not looking for an enthusiastic YES. No discipler should be eager to crash and burn, but veteran disciple makers know that sometimes it doesn’t work out like you hoped. Regardless of how spiritual you are or how prepared you are, there’s no guarantee of success.</p>
<p class="">Fear of failure can imprison rookie disciple makers. Instead of focusing on the needs of the disciple, she focuses on avoiding failure. If a disciple maker is grounded in Christ, she can handle failure. . .even if failure is largely her fault. As they say, failure doesn’t have to be fatal.</p>
<p class="">I’ve failed and lived to tell about it. I’ve discipled people who have never passed it on, who have ghosted me, and who have simply rejected the offer of being discipled. Each time, it’s hurt. But it’s also been a learning experience for me. Maybe I failed. So what? The ability to handle failure is part of maturity. And disciple making is the work of someone more mature helping those less spiritually mature. Don’t fear failure!</p>
<h2><strong>2. Trust Over Fear</strong></h2>
<p class="">There are plenty of other fears that rookie disciple makers carry. Some fear being exposed for lack of understanding or existing sin in their life, others fear their relational weaknesses being uncovered, others fear of giving bad advice, etc.</p>
<p class="">For a disciple maker the antidote to fear isn’t courage, it’s trust. Veteran disciple makers disarm fear by trusting deeply God’s call to disciple. Since Jesus has promised His presence as we disciple (Matt. 28:19-20) we can disciple from a place of safety. It’s okay if we look stupid, ill-equipped, weak, or incompetent because He is with us. He has sent us and so our power comes from Him, not in our sufficiency.</p>
<p class="">In fact, experience has shown me that our weaknesses have far more power in discipling than our strengths do. It’s as if when the Bible says, “His power is made perfect in our weakness” that it’s really true (because it is) (2 Cor. 12:9)!</p>
<p class="">Soaking in these truths disarm fear and allow us to surrender the results to God. When we disciple we are obedient to His call on our life. Since Jesus is with us, what can man do to us?</p>
<p class="">So, if you are a rookie disciple maker, beware of being driven by fear. Not only will fear cause you to make many less than ideal choices as a disciple maker, it will also weaken the power of a healthy disciple making relationship. If left untended it will obliterate both your disciple making relationships and your long-term survival discipler.</p>
<p class="">Those who disciple for the long haul have learned to make peace with failure and to trust God instead of wilting under their fears. I’m praying you will do the same!</p>
<p>Written by Justin Gravitt</p>
<p><em>Justin Gravitt is the Dayton (Ohio) Area Director for Navigator Church Ministries. Read more from Justin at his blog, “</em><em><a href="https://www.justingravitt.com/blog/">One Disciple to Another</a>,” where this article first appeared.</em></p>
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<p><em>By Dillon Smith. Dillon is content manager for Carey Nieuwhof Communications and is a member of the <a href="https://careynieuwhof.com/speaking/">Speaking Team.</a> You can book Dillon to speak at your next event <a href="https://careynieuwhof.com/speaking/dillon-smith/">here</a>.</em></p>
<p><em>By Dillon Smith</em></p>
<p>Raising up new communicators can feel like navigating a minefield.</p>
<p>There is a tension that anyone trying to invest in the next generation of communicators feels. On one hand, you want them to get as many reps and opportunities to practice as possible. But on the other hand, you know that giving inexperienced communicators big opportunities can lead to catastrophic results.</p>
<p>Since there is a massive difference between messing up in front of a small group of 15 people and messing up on a major stage, you want to give new communicators as many small opportunities as you can.</p>
<p>But how do you know when a new communicator is ready to take on a major stage?</p>
<p>As I look back on my own development and the development of others, there are pivotal moments when simple lessons went a long way.</p>
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<p>Here are 4 responses to my early sermons that I needed to hear before taking a major stage:</p>
<h2>1. “You need to learn the rules before you can break the rules”</h2>
<p>A mistake many young communicators make is trying to preach with style before they preach with discipline.</p>
<p>I have done this numerous times.</p>
<p>Early on in my preaching career, I thought that as long as my preaching style was great, the audience would love it.</p>
<p>Do you want to know what happened? No matter how many times I tried to preach with intensity, the audience never responded the way I expected.</p>
<p>It confused me.</p>
<p>I never understood how I could be so excited about a message and the audience could look so lost at the same time.</p>
<p>This happened because I didn’t know the rules for effective public speaking and as a result, my “style” broke all the wrong rules at all the wrong times.</p>
<p>I saw what other great communicators did and copied it, but I didn’t understand the “why” behind it.</p>
<p>If you see what great communicators do, you can imitate it. But if you understand the “why” behind their “what,” you can begin to innovate with your own communication style.</p>
<p><em>If you see what great communicators do, you can imitate it. But if you understand the “why” behind their “what,” you can begin to innovate with your own communication style. </em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/4-lessons-new-communicators-need-to-learn-before-taking-a-major-stage/&amp;text=If you see what great communicators do, you can imitate it. But if you understand the “why” behind their “what,” you can begin to innovate with your own communication style. &amp;via=Dillon_M_Smith&amp;related=Dillon_M_Smith" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<p>The only way I began understanding the “why” was a mentor making me apply discipline before I applied style.</p>
<p>How did he do this?</p>
<p>He created a list of things that a communicator needs to think about every time they speak.</p>
<p>Then, he made write and deliver multiple sermons to him or a very small audience. After that, he would meticulously grade me on every single thing on that list.</p>
<p>If you are looking to teach your young leaders (or yourself) to be a better communicator, try working on your speaking disciplines, not style.</p>
<p>Here is a sample of the list I had to follow for every talk I gave:</p>
<p>Define the purpose of every talk, and every point within the talk.<br />
Every talk needs to be between 2 and 5 points that are pointing towards one main purpose.<br />
Write ALL of your main points before your sub-points, ALL of your sub-points before your sub-sub-point, etc…<br />
Hook the ENTIRE audience with every opening line.<br />
Build credibility with your audience every time you speak.<br />
Every point, sub-point, and sub-sub-point must be exactly one sentence. No more, no less.<br />
Have a specific purpose behind every story/illustration.<br />
End every sermon with fireworks. [This is usually metaphorical. ;)]</p>
<p>The list was longer, but I wanted to give you an idea of just how strict your standards should be while training.</p>
<p>As I did this for multiple talks, I began to understand how each rule works together, and when and why it’s appropriate to break the general rules of public speaking. I began innovating.</p>
<p>Today, every single one of those disciplines has a clear, logical explanation of why I am or am not doing it for every talk I give.</p>
<p>Young speakers need to learn the rules to break the rules, and someone has to teach them.</p>
<p>If a young speaker doesn’t understand the rules of public speaking, they are not ready to take a major stage.</p>
<p><em>Young speakers need to learn the rules to break the rules, and someone has to teach them. </em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/4-lessons-new-communicators-need-to-learn-before-taking-a-major-stage/&amp;text=Young speakers need to learn the rules to break the rules, and someone has to teach them. &amp;via=Dillon_M_Smith&amp;related=Dillon_M_Smith" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2>2. “Your ability to think needs to exceed your ability to speak”</h2>
<p>The person on stage needs to have a deep understanding of whatever they are going to talk about. If they aren’t, why should anyone listen to them?</p>
<p>So how do you know if a young leader has a deep understanding of what he is expected to talk about?</p>
<p>A general rule I follow is this:</p>
<p>If someone can’t converse about a topic at a high level, they won’t be able to speak about a topic at a high level.</p>
<p><em>If someone can’t converse about a topic at a high level, they won’t be able to speak about a topic at a high level. </em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/4-lessons-new-communicators-need-to-learn-before-taking-a-major-stage/&amp;text=If someone can’t converse about a topic at a high level, they won’t be able to speak about a topic at a high level. &amp;via=Dillon_M_Smith&amp;related=Dillon_M_Smith" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<p>So if you can’t have a serious, engaging conversation about the topic with them, they aren’t ready to preach on that topic.</p>
<p>So how do you fix this?</p>
<p>You have deep conversations about the topic with them months before they are set to preach on it.</p>
<p>Give them books to read, podcasts to listen to, and experts in the field to learn from.</p>
<p>After they have done their research, sit down, ask hard questions, and wait for them to come up with good answers.</p>
<p>These will be some of the most formative conversations a young leader can go through. You are teaching them how to learn, think, and articulate their thoughts clearly.</p>
<p>This will take a lot of time, but the young leader that comes out on the other side will be worth the effort.</p>
<p>When you can have deep, engaging conversations about the topic with that leader, they are ready to take a major stage.</p>
<h2>3. “That was rough, but you’re just beginning”</h2>
<p>That sounds harsh, and maybe it is, but here’s the reality:</p>
<p>Everyone who speaks from stage will deliver a terrible talk. The real tragedy is that not everyone will learn from those terrible talks.</p>
<p><em>Everyone who speaks from a stage will deliver a terrible talk. The real tragedy is that not everyone will learn from those terrible talks.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/4-lessons-new-communicators-need-to-learn-before-taking-a-major-stage/&amp;text=Everyone who speaks from a stage will deliver a terrible talk. The real tragedy is that not everyone will learn from those terrible talks.&amp;via=Dillon_M_Smith&amp;related=Dillon_M_Smith" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<p>The best thing an influential leader in the audience can do is pull that communicator aside a couple of days later and say:</p>
<p>“Hey, I think you have a ton of potential as a communicator, but I think you could have done better. How do you think you can improve?”</p>
<p>This conversation is key.</p>
<p>Applied honest feedback is what separates the mediocre communicators from great communicators.</p>
<p><em>Applied honest feedback is what separates the mediocre communicators from great communicators. </em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/4-lessons-new-communicators-need-to-learn-before-taking-a-major-stage/&amp;text=Applied honest feedback is what separates the mediocre communicators from great communicators. &amp;via=Dillon_M_Smith&amp;related=Dillon_M_Smith" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<p>This conversation will be painful, but in the long run, that pain is good.</p>
<p>When young leaders feel the pain of failing on stage, we become motivated to do everything they can to never fail like that again.</p>
<p>You have to let us learn from failure on a small platform, so we don’t fail on a major platform.</p>
<p><em>When young leaders feel the pain of failing on stage, they become motivated to do everything they can to never fail like that again.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/4-lessons-new-communicators-need-to-learn-before-taking-a-major-stage/&amp;text=When young leaders feel the pain of failing on stage, they become motivated to do everything they can to never fail like that again.&amp;via=Dillon_M_Smith&amp;related=Dillon_M_Smith" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2>4. “Do you think you could be called to this?”</h2>
<p>The journey to becoming a public speaker can be pretty discouraging.</p>
<p>Not only are you signing up to do something that most people are more afraid of than dying, but almost nobody is good at public speaking the first few times they speak.</p>
<p>So young communicators are:</p>
<p>Terrified out of their minds.<br />
Have a long way to grow.<br />
Able to choose to do anything else in the world besides public speaking.</p>
<p>So why do they stick around?</p>
<p>Usually, there is someone in their corner cheering them on and mentioning that they might be called to be a preacher or motivational speaker.</p>
<p>Someone sees potential in them and asks, “Do you think you could be called to this?”</p>
<p>So how do you know if you need to have this conversation?</p>
<p>I see 2 major indicators:</p>
<p>Passion – Do they deeply care about what they speak on?<br />
Character – Are they someone worth following?</p>
<p>Notice what isn’t on the list:</p>
<p>Competency – Are they already good at public speaking?</p>
<p>Just because a young leader isn’t good at communicating now, doesn’t mean they never will be.</p>
<p><em>Just because a young leader isn’t good at communicating now, doesn’t mean they never will be. </em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/4-lessons-new-communicators-need-to-learn-before-taking-a-major-stage/&amp;text=Just because a young leader isn’t good at communicating now, doesn’t mean they never will be. &amp;via=Dillon_M_Smith&amp;related=Dillon_M_Smith" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<p>Early on, natural gifting to communicate is a “nice to have” but not a “need to have” for potential public speakers.</p>
<p>But they’ll never learn to speak if nobody ever encourages them to try.</p>
<p>The most important asset a young communicator has is a leader cheering them on.</p>
<p>If you are an older leader and see a young leader who is passionate and has good character, consider challenging them to be a voice for what they are passionate about. Their voice is needed.</p>
<p><em>The most important asset a young communicator has is a leader cheering them on. </em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/4-lessons-new-communicators-need-to-learn-before-taking-a-major-stage/&amp;text=The most important asset a young communicator has is a leader cheering them on. &amp;via=Dillon_M_Smith&amp;related=Dillon_M_Smith" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>Want A Complete Guide to Preaching and Speaking?</strong></h2>
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<p>When it comes to communication and preaching, there are a lot of ways to go wrong that you usually don’t expect.</p>
<p>Ever wish someone could come alongside you to walk you through the finer points of the art of better preaching?</p>
<p>That’s exactly what my good friend Mark Clark and I do in our course,<a href="https://www.theartofbetterpreaching.com/special" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"> The Art of Better Preaching</a>. We’ve even got a full unit on how to leave your notes behind the next time you give a talk.</p>
<p>Every week, Mark and I preach to thousands of churched and unchurched people, Mark at Village Church in Vancouver BC, and me at Connexus Church north of Toronto. We have very different styles, which means this course is not a preach-just-like-me approach to preaching.</p>
<p>You can customize it to help <em>you </em>preach better messages, and it draws from the rich tradition of different approaches that actually connect with unchurched people. Plus, we share our best secrets on how to craft the best messages we know how to create.</p>
<p>In the course, Mark and I cover:</p>
<p>The Why and How of Preaching<br />
How to Preach to the Unchurched<br />
How to Give a Talk Without Using Notes<br />
How to Craft a Killer Bottom Line So People Remember Your Talk Years Later<br />
How to Stay Fresh over the Long Haul</p>
<p>And much more.</p>
<p>The price of the course is going up soon.</p>
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<h2>How Do You Develop Communicators?</h2>
<p>What methods/practices do you use to develop leaders in your organization?</p>
<p>Leave a comment below!</p>
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		<title>Your Stop Doing List: 7 Things To Banish Today To Make Progress</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sean Cronin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jul 2019 09:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>by Carey Nieuwhof: As a leader, there are things you do every day. Some help—others, not so much. I’ve found that as I’ve grown as a leader, I’ve regularly had to change how I think, how I lead and even what I say. Fortunately, there are hacks you can learn [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>by Carey Nieuwhof: As a leader, there are things you do every day.</p>
<p>Some help—others, not so much.</p>
<p>I’ve found that as I’ve grown as a leader, I’ve regularly had to change how I think, how I lead and even what I say.</p>
<p>Fortunately, there are hacks you can learn along the way that will help you get better faster.</p>
<p>What follows are some things you can easily banish as a leader starting today. Eliminating all of them or most of them will give you immediate traction.</p>
<p>Here are 7 things you should stop doing today if you want to make progress.</p>
<h2><strong>1. Lead by intentions</strong></h2>
<p>Your kids aren’t going to remember your intentions. Neither will your wife or your church. The people who count on you only ever see your actions.</p>
<p>Which likely means no one’s going to stand next to your casket or urn and say “He wished he was nicer” or “He had always hoped to be more strategic” or “She really wanted to overcome her fear”.</p>
<p>Legacies never get built on intentions. They’re built on action.</p>
<p>So get over your intentions and start acting.</p>
<p><em>Legacies never get built on intentions. They&#8217;re built on action.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/stop-doing-list-7-things-banish-today/&amp;text=Legacies never get built on intentions. They" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>2. Use words that start with “Some”</strong></h2>
<p>If you want to get nothing meaningful done, just use words that start with “some” a lot. Like in every conversation or meeting you’re in.</p>
<p>What ‘some’ words? Well….</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Somebody</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Someday</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Sometime</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Something</p>
<p>These words end up sounding like this: <em>Somebody should do something about that sometime someday.</em></p>
<p>Guaranteed zero action happens. Ever.</p>
<p>Leadership is not simply talk. In fact, talking about doing something again and again is not leadership, it’s delusion.</p>
<p><em>Talking about doing something again and again is not leadership, it&#8217;s delusion.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/stop-doing-list-7-things-banish-today/&amp;text=Talking about doing something again and again is not leadership, it" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<p>There’s only one ‘some’ word I can think of that I like, and that’s <em>somehow</em>.</p>
<p>Somehow can be an amazing word when you’re up against and impossible task and someone asks you “How on earth will we do this?” and you reply “I don’t know. But somehow we’ll figure it out.”</p>
<p>Now that’s awesome.</p>
<p>But someone somewhere sometimes means no-one nowhere ever. Trust me.</p>
<p><em>Someone, somewhere, sometimes means no-one nowhere ever.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/stop-doing-list-7-things-banish-today/&amp;text=Someone, somewhere, sometimes means no-one nowhere ever.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>3. Unnecessary meetings</strong></h2>
<p>The value of meetings once you get beyond the creative process, or meetings to nail down a few executional details or meetings connect for a check-in to sync up the team is pretty low.</p>
<p>For the most part, meetings are the enemy of work.</p>
<p>Far too many leaders waste their lives in meetings. Instead of doing what they’re called to do, they meet about what they’re supposed to be doing.</p>
<p>Dreams can be born in meetings, but far more often, dreams die in meetings.</p>
<p>Meetings are the enemy of work. Do your work instead.</p>
<p><em>Meetings are the enemy of work. Do your work instead.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/stop-doing-list-7-things-banish-today/&amp;text=Meetings are the enemy of work. Do your work instead.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>4. Fear</strong></h2>
<p>Fear is the thief of hope. It kills leadership. It murders courage.</p>
<p>Way too many leaders I know, live in fear.</p>
<p>The difference between effective leaders and ineffective leaders is simple: all leaders feel fear. The effective ones push past it.</p>
<p><em>Fear is the thief of hope. It kills leadership. It murders courage.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/stop-doing-list-7-things-banish-today/&amp;text=Fear is the thief of hope. It kills leadership. It murders courage.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<p>So what’s the antidote to fear?</p>
<p>While there are a few, believe it or not, I think one of the antidotes to fear is the fear the right thing.</p>
<p>If you’re going to be afraid, I suggest you fear this:</p>
<p><strong>Be afraid of never accomplishing your mission.</strong></p>
<p>That will give you courage, or at least determination. And that in turn, will grow your faith.</p>
<p><em>If you&#8217;re going to be afraid, be afraid of never accomplishing your mission.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/stop-doing-list-7-things-banish-today/&amp;text=If you" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>5. The Desire to Be Liked</strong></h2>
<p>Leadership requires you to take people to destinations they would not go without your leadership.</p>
<p>Stop for a moment and, if you would, re-read that sentence.</p>
<p>Do you see the challenge?</p>
<p>Leadership is inherently difficult because it requires a leader to take people where they don’t naturally want to go.</p>
<p>So you have a choice as a leader.</p>
<p>You can focus on leading people, or focus on being liked.</p>
<p>When you focus on being liked, you will instinctively try to please the people you’re leading. And when you do, you will become confused.</p>
<p>Pleasing people is inherently confusing because people don’t agree. One person wants it one way. Another wants it another way.</p>
<p>And soon, you’re bending over backward to make everyone happy, which of course means that in the end, you will end up making no one happy, including yourself. It’s actually a recipe for misery for everyone.</p>
<p>It’s also a recipe for inertia.</p>
<p>If you focus on being liked, you’ll never lead. You will never have the courage to do what needs to be done.</p>
<p><em>If you focus on being liked, you&#8217;ll never lead.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/stop-doing-list-7-things-banish-today/&amp;text=If you focus on being liked, you" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>6. Selfishness</strong></h2>
<p>Ambition can be a good thing. It’s great to have hopes and dreams for your mission.</p>
<p>But selfish ambition is a different creature.</p>
<p>Ambition kills servants of God and turns them into servants of themselves.</p>
<p>Enough said.</p>
<p><em>Ambition kills servants of God and turns them into servants of themselves.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/stop-doing-list-7-things-banish-today/&amp;text=Ambition kills servants of God and turns them into servants of themselves.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>7. Blaming Others</strong></h2>
<p>It’s so easy to blame everyone else and everything else for your lack of progress as a leader.</p>
<p>If you want to keep not making progress, keep blaming others.</p>
<p>The opposite of blame is responsibility. If you think about the leaders you admire most, they’re probably the most responsible leaders you know.</p>
<p>Great leaders never assign blame. Instead, they assume responsibility.</p>
<p><em>Great leaders never assign blame. Instead, they assume responsibility.</em><a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https://careynieuwhof.com/stop-doing-list-7-things-banish-today/&amp;text=Great leaders never assign blame. Instead, they assume responsibility.&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2><strong>Get Ahead…Work On You</strong></h2>
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<p>It is a crazy world, and if you’re not careful, it can take you under. That’s what happened to me when, after my first decade in leadership, I burned out.</p>
<p>If you’re trying to find the time for what matters most in life, my <a href="https://thehighimpactleader.com/open-now" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">High Impact Leader course</a>, is my online, on-demand course designed to help you get time, energy and priorities working in your favour.</p>
<p>Many leaders who have taken it are recovering 3 productive hours <em>a day</em>.  That’s about 1000 hours of found time each year. That’s a lot of time for what matters most.</p>
<p>Here are what some alumni are saying about The High Impact Leader Course”</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>“Thank you, thank you, thank you for providing the course again. It has absolutely made an impact in my life and family already that I can’t even describe.” – Joel Rowland, Clayton County, North Carolina</em></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Curious? Want to beat overwhelm and have the time to reflect, rest and reinvent yourself?</p>
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<h2><strong>What About You?</strong></h2>
<p>Those are 7 things I check myself on regularly.</p>
<p>What about you? What would you add to the list?</p>
<p>Scroll down and leave a comment!</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Patrick Bradley]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Nov 2017 10:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>by Carey Nieuwhof: Christine Birch has been part of three large churches in both Canada and the US. How do you connect people in a large church and how do you connect them at your church? Christine shares her experiences on both sides of the border as they apply to [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img width="250" height="250" src="https://church-planting.net/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/carey-nieuwhof.jpg" class="attachment-full size-full wp-post-image" alt="www.careynieuwhof.com" id="featured-image" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" decoding="async" loading="lazy" /></div><p>by Carey Nieuwhof: Christine Birch has been part of three large churches in both Canada and the US. How do you connect people in a large church and how do you connect them at your church? Christine shares her experiences on both sides of the border as they apply to large and small churches alike.</p>
<p>Welcome to <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/canadian-church-leaders-podcast/id1166745201?mt=2" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Episode 013 of the podcast, which you can access on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts</a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-47300" src="https://i1.wp.com/careynieuwhof.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/DSC_0139-copy-panorama.jpg?resize=1024,512&amp;ssl=1" alt="" /></p>
<h2 class="a-size-large a-spacing-none">Guest Links</h2>
<p>Christine on <a href="http://facebook.com/christine.birch" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Facebook</a></p>
<p>Christine on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cbirch/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Instagram</a></p>
<p>Christine at <a href="http://connexuschurch.com/christine-birch/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Connexus Church</a></p>
<h2>Links Mentioned</h2>
<p><a href="http://Compassion.ca" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Compassion Canada</a></p>
<p><a href="http://Canadianchurchleadersconference.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Canadian Church Leaders Conference</a></p>
<p><a href="http://fightspam.gc.ca/eic/site/030.nsf/eng/home" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Canada’s Anti-Spam Legislation</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Revisited-Small-Businesses-About/dp/0887307280" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The E-Myth Revisited</a></p>
<h2>A Mission Partner</h2>
<p>Looking for a mission partner? <a href="http://Compassion.ca" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Compassion Canada </a>helps release children from poverty around the world, and they do it through the local church.</p>
<p>They can help you develop a mission strategy for your church that can change the world, whether your church is large or small.</p>
<p>For a free consult, contact them at <a href="mailto:church@compassion.ca" target="_blank" rel="noopener">church@compassion.ca</a>.</p>
<h2>Want to Reach More People?</h2>
<p><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-46195 size-large" src="https://i1.wp.com/careynieuwhof.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/CCLC_Logo.jpg?resize=1024,562&amp;ssl=1" alt="Canadian Church Leaders Conference" /></p>
<p>How different is ministry in Canada?</p>
<p>Join us June 14-16, 2018 in Barrie, Ontario for the <a href="http://Canadianchurchleadersconference.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Canadian Church Leaders Conference</a>, a conference designed to help Canadian Church Leaders reach people.  Intimate, interactive and featuring all new talks. This years speakers include Laurel Buckingham (Moncton Wesleyan), Shaila Visser (Alpha Canada),  Jon Thompson (C4 Church), Jeff Brodie (Connexus) and Carey Nieuwhof.</p>
<p>Registration is officially open.</p>
<p>Secure your spot now to grab the <a href="http://Canadianchurchleadersconference.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">early bird rate</a> before the tickets are gone. It’s already 40% sold out!</p>
<h2>3 Insights from This Episode</h2>
<p><strong>1. Posture your church so that guests feels expected and accepted</strong></p>
<p>People assume that community will just happen organically, but no matter the size of your church it takes intentionality and hustle. Size doesn’t have anything to do with how warm or cold a church can feel to a new attender and church staff must develop a welcoming posture to ensure a guest feels expected and accepted.</p>
<p><strong>2. Make your follow up with new guests quick, personal and generous</strong></p>
<p>Connexus Church has a great system for following up with guests. It isn’t time consuming and offers personal notes with generous gestures to make people feel welcomed into community. Here’s an overview your church can use and modify to fit your needs.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">First Sunday: Connections Card &amp; Small Gift (example: coffee mug)</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Week One: Handwritten Post Card from a volunteer, Bombbomb Email from Campus Pastor, Personal Phone Call from a staff member</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Week Two (Attender): Hand written, stamped and addressed Note with Gift Card</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Week Two (Absent): If a family doesn’t return,  mail a hand stamped and addressed Letter with incentive to return (example: coupon for a free book)</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">If attenders opt in to receive emails, send regular invitations to attend a new members style class and any current events happening on campus.</p>
<p><strong>3. Honouring the personal space and </strong>privacy of attendees shows them respect and protects your church, too</p>
<p>Never force attendees to identify themselves. Instead, respect personal space by allowing them to remain anonymous until they feel comfortable being known. In the mean time, make sure that those next steps are clear and easily available so people can engage your church when they are ready.</p>
<p>If people have volunteered email addresses to receive information about your church you have the responsibility to continue communicating to them until they opt out, but take the time to learn <a href="http://fightspam.gc.ca/eic/site/030.nsf/eng/home" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Canada’s Anti-Spam Legislation</a> to protect your church from legal battles.</p>
<h2>Quotes from This Episode</h2>
<p><em>The average church sees 1 in 10 of their first time guests return. – Christine Birch</em><a href="https://twitter.com/share?text=The+average+church+sees+1+in+10+of+their+first+time+guests+return.+-+Christine+Birch&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof&amp;url=https://careynieuwhof.com/cclpepisode013/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<p><em>Our follow up should be generous. – Christine Birch</em><a href="https://twitter.com/share?text=Our+follow+up+should+be+generous.+-+Christine+Birch&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof&amp;url=https://careynieuwhof.com/cclpepisode013/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<p><em>Persistence is a good virtue. – @cnieuwhof</em><a href="https://twitter.com/share?text=Persistence+is+a+good+virtue.+-+@cnieuwhof&amp;via=cnieuwhof&amp;related=cnieuwhof&amp;url=https://careynieuwhof.com/cclpepisode013/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Click To Tweet</a></p>
<h2>Does Church in Canada Have to Stay Small?</h2>
<p><a href="https://careynieuwhof.com/breaking-200/"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-45469 size-full" src="https://i0.wp.com/careynieuwhof.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Photo-2017-07-07-3-25-53-PM-2.jpg?resize=4474,2517&amp;ssl=1" alt="" /></a></p>
<p>So you would love to reach more people, but how? Your church just can’t seem to sustainably grow past the 200 barrier.</p>
<p>You’re reaching new families every month, but it’s like pouring water into a leaking bucket: you just can’t grow past your current plateau. What gives?</p>
<p><a href="https://careynieuwhof.com/breaking-200/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Breaking 200 Without Breaking You </a>can help you and your team break through the barrier <strong>85% of churches never move </strong>past: the 200 attendance barrier.</p>
<p>So many leaders who try to break it either get stuck at 50, 100 or 200 in attendance or burned out in the process of trying.</p>
<p>It doesn’t have to be that way.</p>
<p>Believe it or not, the reasons most churches never break 200 aren’t spiritual reasons, they’re <em>practical</em> reasons. Strategic reasons.</p>
<p>The course tackles eight key issues that keep churches from passing the 200 barrier and beyond. It includes:</p>
<p>8 videos designed to guide you and your leadership team through all the key growth barriers smaller churches face.<br />
150 page downloadable workbook for you and your team.<br />
12 licenses, so you can take your <em>entire</em> team through it—board, staff, key volunteers—whoever you want (that’s about $20 a person).<br />
A bonus cheat sheet with access to 20 free resources designed to take you further.<br />
A private Breaking 200 Facebook Group access exclusive to the first 1000 purchasers.</p>
<p>So whether your church is 50, 150 or 250 in attendance, the principles will help you gain the insight you need to break the barrier more than 85% of churches can’t break.</p>
<p><a href="https://careynieuwhof.com/breaking-200/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Click here to get instant access!</a></p>
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<h2><strong>Appreciate This? Rate the Podcast.</strong></h2>
<p>Hopefully, this episode has helped you and your church reach more people. That’s my goal. If you appreciated it, could you share the love?</p>
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<p>Your ratings and reviews help us place the podcast in front of new leaders and listeners. Your feedback also lets me know how I can better serve you.</p>
<p>Thank you for being so awesome.</p>
<h2><strong>Next Episode: Brett Ullman<br />
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<p>Mental health is not a subject we discuss well in the church. But at any given time, about 20% of your church and leaders are struggling with various mental health issues. Brett Ullman, a nationally respected speaker and authority on parenting and teens, talks about how his struggles started and how to respond in the church and in leadership when mental health issues arise.</p>
<p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/canadian-church-leaders-podcast/id1166745201?mt=2" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Subscribe for free</a> now and you won’t miss Episode 014.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://careynieuwhof.com/cclpepisode013/" rel="nofollow">CCLP 013: Christine Birch on Connecting New People Who Come to Your Church</a> appeared first on <a href="https://careynieuwhof.com" rel="nofollow">CareyNieuwhof.com</a>.</p>
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<p>Source: <a href="https://careynieuwhof.com/cclpepisode013/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">CCLP 013: Christine Birch on Connecting New People Who Come to Your Church</a></p>
<p>The post <a href="https://church-planting.net/cclp-013-christine-birch-on-connecting-new-people-who-come-to-your-church/">Connecting New People Who Come to Your Church</a> appeared first on <a href="https://church-planting.net">Passion for Planting</a>.</p>
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